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booboo87
booboo87

I everyone I've had genital herpes now for 9 years witch I don't really get a outbreak anymore as I have a lot off salt baths and keep my self very highly clean but I noticed four years ago that I started to get warts near my anal area while I was pregnant with my son so I new that it was his farther who passed them on to me but cause I was a carryer off the HPV virus anyways I was quick to get them even thou I haven't got them now and I get regular check ups I am very honest when I get talking to any man but recently I was chatting to someone and I started to like him so I told him I had the HPV virus and ive never been made to feel so disgusting in all my life I don't sleep about and I always same to get disgusting men who don't get checks I just feel I need a bit off support at the moment hope no one will judge me thank you x

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  • liz75523
    liz75523 booboo87

    Posted

    No judgement, Hon.  I'm so sorry all of this is happening.  You will find the right guy who will love you and know how beautiful you are, inside and out.  Keep your chin up. Take some time to be kind to yourself and do things that make you feel good about who you are.  Big hugs.
    • booboo87
      booboo87 liz75523

      Posted

      Thank you hun I appreciate it I just get sick off my self I think I'm just glad even thou I have the HPV viruses I have 4 wonderful bright children that make me smile everyday xx thank u xx
  • liz75523
    liz75523 booboo87

    Posted

    There's not much better than seeing the smiling faces of your children!  That will always make you feel better!  I have 2 that are young adults now.  They can brighten my darkest day.  😊
  • feelbroken
    feelbroken booboo87

    Posted

    Kind of hard to understand your post, as I believe you sent this this from a phone. So did the guy yiu disclosed to make you feel bad?

    .do not feel bad. I didn't have sex for two yrs and got herpes the first time I did have sex, after all that time. I've never been promiscuous and it doesn't make me any dirtier than the next person and neither does it you.

    • booboo87
      booboo87 feelbroken

      Posted

      Yes hun I'm on a fone lol and he made me feel dirty worthless n all that but I now he just pure ignorant to my situation I have really good friends who have the same as me so they now what I'm going thru I just think I'm lucky to have my kids n friends last night I just was so angry xxx
    • feelbroken
      feelbroken booboo87

      Posted

      Do me a favor, Google H Opportunity, it has these wonderful disclosure pamphlets w transmission risk and the caveats behind each percentage. It is something I plan on using for disclosure. It has videos to help you prepare and stuff to print our to help you.

      As for that j*rk, tell him to go kick rocks. How long were you dating before you told him? What did he say?

  • paul92131
    paul92131 booboo87

    Posted

    Sorry to hear about what happened. But try to remember how you were about these things before you caught it. I have had it now for 4 years and as much as I hate what we have, it has made me a better person. I now stop and think about things a lot more. This guy is ignorant to what we have got and unfortunately sounds like he isn't the type to come round to the idea. There is good people out there that will be with you because they want to be with you. Enjoy life for now and the rest will happen. 😃😃
  • darshan
    darshan booboo87

    Posted

    I googled the h oppirtunity..hope u do too..I am depressed today Too as I have been rejected after telling someone I have the virus...the info is very helpful&supportive on h opportinitu..
    • booboo87
      booboo87 darshan

      Posted

      Yea hun I'm on there too and i t helps me to get thru day today life with living with these two virus x
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