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charlie51953
charlie51953

Hi I have an eating disorder and I feel like

Giving up my husband has left me and our kids because he cannot take it no more I

Have tried. So hard . I have now gone

Back to not eating to lose more weight. I know he left me cos I'm fat

Any one got any advice

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  • jason59915
    jason59915 charlie51953

    Posted

    Yeah my advice is do not let the scum get you down and do not stop eating all you need is a decent eating plan and a bit of self esteem back !!!
    • charlie51953
      charlie51953 jason59915

      Posted

      Your right I will not let him get me

      Down i will beat this and i don't need

      him thank u

    • jason59915
      jason59915 charlie51953

      Posted

      I have lost 16 stone and have gone through the dull spectrum ofnemotions both of my own and that of other who just couldnt handle the new me , your worth more rhan them !!!
    • sim_1971
      sim_1971 charlie51953

      Posted

      My advice is the same.

      My husband drifted away from me because I'm fat and not good enough to take out anywhere with him.

      He found more "comfort" with a friend I made.

      They have ruined both families.

      18 years of marriage and 3 lovely kids all suffering.

      We still live together and I put up with it for the kids but they know everything too because they're not young. 15,14 and 11

      My health has suffered after my middle son and due to lack of mobility put a lot of weight on but accusations and arguments make it worse.

      Think positive you can do it and show him your better without him.

      I've tried to get my head around things. Still eating bad food as well but cut down.

      Don't stop eating because that won't help you.

      Do it for yourself and your kids. I've tried to focus now and tell myself I want to be here for them and see them settled. So I need to sort my health out.

      I wish you all the best and hope you can find a new you and life from all this hurt.

      I know its not easy and we're here if you want to let off steam or chat

    • charlie51953
      charlie51953 jason59915

      Posted

      Wow that good I way 6st 7 and I'm still trying to lose weight.I just don't

      Understand why my. Ex husband. Did not want me I even found out he was cheating on me

    • sim_1971
      sim_1971 charlie51953

      Posted

      Oh my goodness

      6st7

      I thought you were overweight when you said fat.

      Please please don't do this to yourself

      Please don't lose any more weight. You need a healthy meal plan to become a healthy weight.

      I don't know how old your children are but surely you don't want them thinking that starving yourself is good.

      Please do it for all of you

    • charlie51953
      charlie51953 sim_1971

      Posted

      My kids are 6 7 9 it really hard

      He is right no one will want me

      my health is bad .i got to try for my

      Kids

    • charlie51953
      charlie51953 sim_1971

      Posted

      my husband. Cheat on me and when I found out it made it worse. Hefound comfort from someone. Else too he never. Talk to me all the done was stay out and spend my money on her when I beat thisI never take him

      Back

    • charlie51953
      charlie51953 jason59915

      Posted

      I know but he right no one will want

      Me cos I'm fat I hate to put my kids though the this

    • sim_1971
      sim_1971 charlie51953

      Posted

      Your not fat

      6st7 is underweight

      Please try to stop believing you are

  • Beano
    Beano charlie51953

    Posted

    Without wanting to upset you it really sounds as though you need psychological help from a professional. Please see your doctor and get their advice with regard to your weight and any other issues. I wish you well smile
  • lynne60995
    lynne60995 charlie51953

    Posted

    Charlie hi

    agred with Beano - there is a lot of support and help for you out there and please consult your doctor so you can embrace it. You deserve this both for you and your children.

    take the very best of care

    Lynne

    xx

  • Eleni27
    Eleni27 charlie51953

    Posted

    I agree with others, certainly a psychological assessment is required. Go to your GP, Book a double appointment and tell them all about it. Get a referral to a nutritionist/dietician and also a psychologist. You can beat this. At a healthy weight you'll be much better equipped to have strength, for yourself and your children.
    • charlie51953
      charlie51953 Eleni27

      Posted

      I have now be referred they sent it off as an emergency I got my appointment. Next week
    • Eleni27
      Eleni27 charlie51953

      Posted

      A great start Charlie. Be sure to write a list of anything important to speak about so that you can make good use of the time with experts. Rooting for you! Stay strong!
    • lynne60995
      lynne60995 charlie51953

      Posted

      Wonderful news! I think you have made a wise and healthy balanced decision- well done. Remember you and your children deserve the best!

      Much love

      lynne

      xx

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