Ex Lover... or still my lover??

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I met this boy one day at school and I know that I fell in love with him.. We was together for about a year, before things started to feel different.. I started to feel like I lost feelings for him and that I don’t love him anymore.. So I did what I thought was the right thing to do. So I dumped him and then Id get these thoughts from my head "Do I still love him..." "Do I actually miss him?" "Do I wanna be with him?? or someone else.." there's times when I feel like hes the one for me, And I cant see myself with anyone else, but then theres also times that I don't think things will ever be normal again. He loves me so much.. And i'm always living my life now with guilt.. And feeling hurt because I broke his heart.. I feel like this is depression, But i'm not quite sure I jus wish I still had the same feelings and wish nothing would have changed... But I feel like I lost all interest and I dont feel the happiness or butterflies anymore, that he used to make me feel. Did I stop loving him? Or should I try to take depression pills, And see if that will help...

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    hi teja, that's a tough one! i think you did love him but now you're not sure? i don't know what happened to alter things but you need to work out whether this change got in the way and altered your feelings.have you asked him what he thinks? does he still care anymore? pills may help but only you can work out what you want. no nobody else can say what you feel...

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    You may not be depressed but anxious and very concerned. Its normal to feel this way, i do it myself from time to time. If you have regrets about dumping him, come clean and tell him you want him back, that is if he is still single. You can make things right and undo the damage, again, if he is still single.

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