Feel like giving up
Posted , 7 users are following.
wondering what life would be like without me being here, would so much easier and less stressful. Feel like in overloaded and just had enough 😔😔
1 like, 28 replies
Posted , 7 users are following.
wondering what life would be like without me being here, would so much easier and less stressful. Feel like in overloaded and just had enough 😔😔
1 like, 28 replies
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dawn37202 michelle87265
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i no its easy for me to say be strong but im not you....everyone deals with stress in there own way
whats causing you to feel soo down?
i hope you have a better day tomorrow x
michelle87265 dawn37202
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michelle87265 dawn37202
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Thank you for caring and showing kindness
Emilia29 michelle87265
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michelle87265 Emilia29
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hypercat michelle87265
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dawn37202 hypercat
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xx
hypercat dawn37202
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michelle87265 hypercat
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Thank you everyone for your kind messages xx
hope everyone has else is ok, thanks for reading
💐💐💐💐
hypercat michelle87265
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You are welcome Michelle. We are all entitled to self pity sometimes and there is nothing wrong in it. You have got a lot on your plate and I hope it helped you to get it off your chest here. Hang on in there love as things usually get better in time. Hugs Bev xx
dawn37202 hypercat
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hahahahaha yeah me too
i love the forums they make you feel part of the human race so to speak
Dawn x
lisalisa67 michelle87265
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Digsby michelle87265
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Sending you a big hug and encouraging you to take small steps and allow yourself time to rearrange the load you are carrying or even step back from some of it for a while. If my struggle with chronic depression over the past year has taught me anything as far as coping for one more day, it's this:
There are things in my life causing me stress that are beyond my control. I may not be able to get rid of the problem straight away, but I can take control of my reaction to the stress while I'm waiting to solve the problem.
Some problems seem like mountains and I just can't face dealing with them. If I can break the problemn down, I can deal with a little bit at a time, as and when I'm ready. This gives me a sense of control and achievement which can boost my self-confidence.
The road to recovery will be up and down so don't get too disappointed with setbacks along the road. These are just pauses so don't let them rob you of the progress you have made. I've read how some people keep a journal so they can remind themselves of the positives when the negative cloud descends and the depression whispers its lies in your ear.
Let those around you know how you are feeling and what your boundaries are. Learn to say "no" or "not yet" according to how much energy you have. This can be the most difficult of all because we often keep our mask up for those who spend most time with us. But you need to prioritise your needs sometimes, otherwise you won't be in a fit state to give anything.
I read somewhere recently that if you want your life to change then you have to make changes in your life. If the same-old, same-old is overwhelming you, then bottom line is that something's got to give. This may mean taking a break from something in your life which is proving unhelpful, or giving yourself some distance from a relationship that is putting pressure on your coping strategies.
I'm not saying any of this stuff is easy when you feel low and under pressure. They are things that help me reset my negative thinking and make it through one more day.
You have a lot of friendly support here Michelle so keep us updated on how things are going for you. I think you are a survivor :-) Good luck!
Digsby x