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feeling anxious and i need to calm down!

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katie2705
katie2705

Hi,

I am feeling pretty anxious right now, i left my boyfriends house on an arguement and came to my parents, ive got a horrible cold and i just feel very bunged up and i have a head cold. me and my boyfriend have sort of sorted it out i usually stay at his every night, so finding it difficult at my parents house when im sick and ive left his on an arguement.

i really need to calm down, does anyone have any advice or can reassure me? thanks in advance x

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  • dee53012
    dee53012 katie2705

    Posted

    Arguments really do kick up that old adreneline doesn't it!  

    Take a lot of deep breaths and or go for a good hearty walk or run (depending on your fitness level of course)  

    Drink camamile or peppermint tea . . . take a hot lavender bath and light some candles. . . journal/sort out how you feel and what you want in the relationship. 

    Hope you feel better soon, get some rest and take care of yourself.  

    • katie2705
      katie2705 dee53012

      Posted

      I've had a nice cup of tea, just finishing watching a film then I will head to bed soon I think. I know its not nice, im anxious because of my head cold i can barely hear so I just feel a bit off balance! Going to head to bed soon and maybe watch something that'll relax me!

    • lisalisa67
      lisalisa67 katie2705

      Posted

      Such a cold is going around. Its messed with my ears. Makes us cranky.

      When you calm down from all this and he calms down too..text him a sweet message and see how it plays out.

      Sometimes a day off isnt a bad thing. 

    • katie2705
      katie2705 lisalisa67

      Posted

      I have spoken to him its just the sleeping alone I find weird I think, dont like it when I'm sick and all I can hear is a wooshing sound in my ears from the congestion

    • lisalisa67
      lisalisa67 katie2705

      Posted

      It stinks being sick! And tomorrows a new day and hopefully youll back and everything will be good.
  • borderriever
    borderriever katie2705

    Posted

    katie

    So are you now back to your boyfriends house.

    Sit down and have a warm milk or lemon juice, with a tablespoon full of honey and mix well. Take a couple of Paracetamol and go to bed

    Get yourself sorted, keep a hold

    • katie2705
      katie2705 borderriever

      Posted

      No Im still at my parents watching a film in the lounge.. had a nice shower calmed down a bit. I have a head cold which is making me feel all disorintated anyway so its just not nice!
    • borderriever
      borderriever katie2705

      Posted

      katie

      A dram or Whiskey or rum is good for a gold.

      That is my recommendation and will stick with that lol

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