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So my partner has been off with me since I got my official diagnosis. I was saying I felt really tired tonight. He said ye I'm tired too - I'll just give up working too.
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Posted , 5 users are following.
So my partner has been off with me since I got my official diagnosis. I was saying I felt really tired tonight. He said ye I'm tired too - I'll just give up working too.
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Carinaeta Tired_teddy
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If you're both tired now's not the time to discuss, but you should probably have a chat about how you both feel another time. He needs to look online and maybe speak to your doctor with you so he's more involved and more informed in how this affects you. There's a difference in giving up work and not being able to work because of a disability, everyone on this forum knows that. Sending supportive vibes xxxxx
tiswas24537 Tired_teddy
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and isolated
. i started to chat to a guy on you tube about memories of the 70s music etc, then we started to text each other ,this made my husband sit up and notice what he had been dpong to me , because i was honest with him i didnt do it behind his back , he has totaly changed towards me cant do enough for me , and i am milking it .
, i am getting gifts ,and massagers ,and his even got a water bed on trial to see if it is more comfortable for me and paid the extra for duel mattress ,super stable so it moves only a little but not to much because i would proberly feel sick .if it moved loads.
i told him that he drove me to it which he did , and that i am not stopping texting because i dont trust him not to go back to how he was ,his excepted it .maybe you need to do something along those lines . or just tell them to go .doors open . scary i know . but you have to take control hun or like me you will become a victim. i thought back and have come out on top . and im sure you can to . HAVE you tried magnesium supplement for better energy ,along with q10, and maybe b12. .they do help .
janet01833 tiswas24537
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tiswas24537 janet01833
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last yr i broke my nose and a bone in my hand after falling in the street hardly saw any bruising just a very slight tinge no black eyes or anything.
so maybe theres something eles going on .people who bennifit most from b12 are people in the older age bracket and people who have had stomach surgery . if i was you i would stop one at a time for a couple of weeks and see if not taking them stops u from bruising .but dont stop all at once other wise u wont know which one if any are causing the problem
janet01833 tiswas24537
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tiswas24537 janet01833
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my sisterinlaw has cravings for salt shehas a condition linked to this. where she looks like shes been beaten up after the tinnest bump . cant remember what its called now but if you do have a love of salt might be worth looking up on line conditions that causes bruising.
janet01833 tiswas24537
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tiswas24537 janet01833
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JulieBadger Tired_teddy
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You've only just been diagnosed and emotions are raw on both sides. When he returns to work and you find a routine that will help.
I find it hard when my hubby says he is tired, cos I know his tiredness is a passing thing unlike mine. He deserves his feelings to be recognised too and suggestions to be made by you on how he could feel better. He made the emotional mistake of comparing his to yours in a dramatic way. I would recommend saying "why don't you have a little nap or go out in the fresh air, that will help your tiredness pass. Don't worry you don't have to give it your work". If he comes back with 'oh, so your tiredness means you can give up work but I can't' explain " you're lucky, I've got no choice cos my tiredness won't go away. I'd love to be working and I will do once I'm well enough".
I try to understand when others say they are tired or something hurts. It's difficult at times, but they have feelings too. x
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Flowerlady Tired_teddy
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So sorry to hear your partner is being off with you. There are plenty more fish in the sea, as the saying goes...I wish people could understand what we all are going through. I am on my own all week, till my husband get home for a day and a half. He does do things for me though. You have got us lot on here to keep you company..Regards...Anne...
Tired_teddy Flowerlady
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