fobia , scared beging to be courted by a man.

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I always felt scared iniciating some relation with a man. when someone begin to court me, I feel a apprehension, nervous or a fast palpitation which leaves  anguish provoking an anxiety and hablanding mucho

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    May I ask your age?  How experienced in life are you?  Your apprehension is not strange, especially if you are young, inexperienced in dealing with the opposite sex.  Quite normal, until the inexperienced become experience in the ways of life.

    As life goes forward for anyone, the dealings with the opposite sex come become better and better, as experience increases.

    This will and should happed to you, as your relationships with the opposite sex, increases.

    Do not, however, allow the opposite sex to take advantage of your seemingly inexperience, as this can lead you into much heartache later.

    Just understand, both male and female, has the right to say "NO"!  Anything after that word, "NO" has been voiced by either party, is considered RAPE!!!


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    I really understand how you feel.  It can be very intimidating.  I think working on your inner confidence and strength will help you.  Any also spending time with your male family and male friends to help you feel more comfortable around men.  And if you meet someone you like, it is important to tell them that you feel this way so they can be sure to help you feel calm and relaxed with them.  Good luck for the future smile
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      I have spend time with Mexican men some occasions, and I feel comfortable with them. but when some of them talk of love of tend to courteous; I feel sacard or anxiety that I want to run a different place. I feel a sentation of unsafe or don't know.
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