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Guys I think I have a problem
I am 24 years old and my foreskin is attached to one side of the head
I never tried to pull it back and it really pains. Am afraid what happens if I pull it back.
I am still a virgin though.
I attached a picture check and help me with this and let me know what would be the best solution.
That's the max I can pull it back without pain.
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kenneth1955 Robinsun
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This is a hard call my friend. You can't pull the foreskin below the head. Do you have a problem with your erections or masturbation. If not leave it alone. If you are concerned make a appointment to see a urologist maybe you can help you Good luck Ken
Robinsun kenneth1955
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Will I be able to stretch my foreskin down the head normally after sex?
Looking at the picture, can you say if it is normal or is there any problem if the head is attached to the skin?
You can see it right? foreskin attached to the head?
Wee_Dugie Robinsun
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Hi Robinsun, first of all - I am a 61 year old male and my foreskin has been attached to the head of my penis all my life. I first realised this when I was around 17 and I set about exposing more of the head than I could at that age. It was only in the last 2 years that I have been able to expose the majority of the head - but it is still completely attached on the underside. So to answer your questions:-
- "If I have sex for the first time, will this be fixed?" - NO, this will not fix the condition, AND it is most unlikely that sex will 'fix' the problem in the many thousands of men who have this condition now!
- "Will I be able to stretch my foreskin down the head normally after sex?" - NO, sex has nothing to do with you being able to stretch YOUR foreskin, or not!
- "Looking at the picture, can you say if it is normal or is there any problem if the head is attached to the skin?" - It is actually 'normal' in this manner: Throughout the history of mankind millions of men will have had this issue. Most have no doubt had very enjoyable sex lives, and have similarly, fathered many children no doubt! Therefore, it is only a problem if you see it as a problem!!
- "You can see it right? foreskin attached to the head?" - Yes, if that is as far as you can stretch it then it is attached.
*The issue is what do you want to do about this. Have you had it checked by a medical professional?
If you want to set-about stretching it for yourself, do an online search for: Phimosis - Stretching - Tight-foreskin. Do not, buy any DIY kits even if they claim to be Doctor approved. ALL you need is the determination to do this slowly (over an extended period of months), without causing yourself any problems.
If you want any further guidance, simply update this discussion ......
Robinsun Wee_Dugie
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Also let me know few tips to increase my performance.
I am still a virgin. So no idea of how much time I can keep up.
Wee_Dugie Robinsun
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Hi Robinsun, like many men would be, I think you are focused in the wrong direction.
Never having sex with another person is NOT a problem for a man at ANY age!
Performance should NOT be what you are about. If you want to have relationships with others you need to be relaxed about yourself so that potential partners want to spend time with YOU.
Simply, sex is not about 'the amount of time you can keep up'. Nor is it about technique, or being any form of stud.
If you want to work on changing your frame of mind, you can share that on here if you wish? My first step would be for you to create a relaxing time for yourself so that masturbation becomes ONLY a part of this, and becomes a part of a process of your self-pleasuring.
"kenneth1955" asked you about your erections and your masturbatory practices and you did not answer these questions. If you want to explore who it is you are as a man, sexually, you would need to talk about these things on here. You are completely anonymous (no one knows who you are!) on here, so you can do that if you wish. Obviously, it is completely your choice whether you want to talk about that on here, or not.
If you do want to talk about it, you need to let me know about what happens when you masturbate? How frequently you masturbate? Why it is NOT being able to stretch your foreskin has just become an issue for you now? Perhaps you knew about it, but simply ignored the issue previously?
SHOULD you not want to discuss the issues about your foreskin and masturbation, then Good Luck - learn to be relaxed about yourself .... find a partner that chooses to spend time with you ..... W.D.
kenneth1955 Robinsun
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Rob... First thing you have to do is relax. Let me also tell you that I did not have intercourse till I was 24. And it was over in a minute. It was not what I through. Not saying I did not do oral with a girlfriend. I all most married her but that's another sorry. I did met a nice girl at the end of that year, We got married 6 month's later I was 25 and she was 19. She know more they I did. But on our wedding night we did it 4 times. All men are different and we can go from sex anytime with anyone. When your young you can be ready in a minutes. When your older it take's a little longer for some of us. But I have found if you love someone sex is much better. As you are with the same person you find out how they like it and what you like done. I was married for 22 years but that's was then. One night stands are not for me. Had a few and I can get myself off. When you masturbate you only have to please you. And when you get into a relationship you have to talk with your partner you tell them what you like and they can tell you. If you see them again. The next time will be better. You are made the way you are like all men are made the way they are. It will all work the same. If you masturbate or have intercourse it works the same way and the out come is the pleasure. So please just relax and enjoy your body. Every man does it. We are on here to help. Some men don't have anyone to talk to. Take it easy on yourself Ken
Robinsun kenneth1955
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Just want to my foreskin down the head .
The only thing I am concerned about is when I try to pull it back it pains like hell
Wee_Dugie Robinsun
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You need to learn to do foreskin stretches safely. Do online searches for these pages: -
A Phimosis Journey > A Guide to Treating Phimosis
wiki how - 3 ways to do phimosis stretching
You MUST begin to do these very carefully at first, then after 4 or 5 months of no injury problems you can use slightly more pressure to carefully stretch the foreskin towards the body. You may seem to have achieved very little difference at first, but, if you persist with the exercises over an extended period of months your penis will respond to the exercises. Good Luck - W.D.