Genital herpes
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i had sex with my ex feb 15, 2019 & in october 2019 i got tested for std's they took my blood and urine my results came back negative for everything except bv so me and my boyfriend been having sex since november i think and 2 weeks back we had sex again and my vag had swollen so i called my doctor and ask her about my results she checked again and said everything came back negative so she asked me if i wanted to come back in and get tested again and i said yes so i went and got tested on a monday and the next monday i called to see my results she said everything was negative at first but then i got a call back and she said i was positive for herpes she didnt say what kind but im guessing gential herpes but what im trying to see is did i give herpes to my boyfriend or did he give them to me ?
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amanda60475 Guest
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with herpes there is no "blame game" unless someone had been with you and did not disclose that they had the virus. there's really no way to tell how long you've had it or who gave it to you. has your boyfriend tested positive ?
Khld1213 Guest
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Well I would recommend you to hurry up and do a swap test before it heals since its the most accurate way to know if you have HSV or not. because your dr doesnt seem to be confident.
however unfortunitly i dont think there is a way to know who gave it to who. but try to talk with your bf
Liz1804 Guest
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Ive read everywhere that you cant tell how long youve had it or who gave it you BUT when i spoke to a doctor last week (im in the middle of my first outbreak) she said it was highly likely my boyfriend has passed it on to me. We slept together and i got symptoms the next day. He has no symptoms at all but she said to have an outbreak as bad as i have had its unlikely ive had it for longer than that. I asked why have i caught it now if weve been together for a year and she asked if id been run down, which i have. And she said thats why. So much contradicting information everywhere its confusing.
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i got tested after me and my bf had sex because my vagina had swollen and i was in pain my test were positive he hasn't went to the doctor yet cause of the virus.
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thank you guys for responding ❤