gential herpes

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Can people help me come to terms with my diagnoses. I have been in a long term relationship and have just been digonsed with genital herpes. I feel my.life to find the love of my.life is over. Feel like no one will accept me again. And im juat so scared of being alone.rest.of my life. Please help me thank u

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    It's ok, u are not alone...one day at a time...I also feel that no woman would ever want me now that I have this. just don't stress and breathe!!! God bless

  • Posted

    Stacey you're not alone. I feel the exact same way. Im currently waiting for my results but what else could it be? I honestly feel like moving to some island where no one knows me.

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      Hey brooke04918, how"d u go with ur results? Hope alls good. I wanted to run away. But running isnt going to change anything. Guess the good ones will accept and the wrong ones want. But im still strugglimg. And ive had genital herpes 2 years now. Only had 2 break out. But still a constant struggle. Thinking i will!be by myself rest of my life. Im 30years old.

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      I have it. I've been seeing this guy and I finally told him and he said it wasn't a deal breaker. I just don't know how true it is because he'll go into talks about how slow were moving had kinda stopped the momentum. So still feeling it out but he didn't cast me aside right away but I also don't want to get into a relationship because he's the only one who accepts me. I just constantly think how did this happen to me? I'm always the mom in the group. Listening to the emotional toll this has on people and the amount I wish discovering a cure was priority but until then I somehow need to figure out how to be happy with myself.

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    You are not alone. When I first found out 5 months ago I was devastated I thought I was going to be alone for the rest of my life. Then I met someone. I told him the truth and he was ok with it. I make sure I take care of myself. Get enough sleep take my daily med along with my vitamins and have learned to not stress. I have had only the one outbreak thank goodness.

    This group helped me realize that their are men and woman out there that don't care and will love you no matter what.

    Just take time to come to terms with this and know it's not the end of your life.

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