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Girlfriend has Herpes

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So I meet the most beautiful girl to me. She is sooo perfect.. But she said to me that she has Herpes. I dont know which type but i think I'll have a conversation about it today just to clear it up. She said to me it's not contagious bit from what I read it is! The problem is I already have an autoimune disease and my imune system is probably already at it's lowest so i surely don't want another sh*t which can't be cured. So what is allowed to do with her when it comes to sex. We only have safer sex right now but i do go down on her. Do I put myself at a risk while doing it? Arghhhh this woman is great and I won't leave her because the full package is perfect.. but I don't want herpes too because once you got it.. you know it

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  • Naturalcure99
    Naturalcure99 CR7

    Posted

    Hey if you have an autoimmune disease you really should try juicing vas going on a mostly raw diet, it will probably fix your disorder as well as boost your immune system. Eliminate all junk food from your diet. As for the herpes, I had it unknowingly for a long time, when I found out I was with a woman who accepted it. We had unprotected sex when I didn't have an outbreak gas she's shows no signs of having it. So the spread of it for me is up in the air.  
  • Victoria11183
    Victoria11183 CR7

    Posted

    if u go down on her & its genital herpes u CAN catch it. u can still even catch it if u wear a condom & she doesnt have any sores
    • CR7
      CR7 Victoria11183

      Posted

      So that means i probably get it sooner or later.. sad
    • Victoria11183
      Victoria11183 CR7

      Posted

      some people (a lot) carry the virus for many years without ever getting any symptoms & some people Never get any. i guess theyre the lucky ones. i found out today that i have it & been with my fiancee for 2 & half years & there is no way of knowing when i got it , it could have been from him or even 10 yrs ago
    • tobi9592
      tobi9592 Victoria11183

      Posted

      Men don't usually show symptoms of herpes, mostly woman. and from what i've read too, there was a couple who has been together for several years, one of them has herpes, and the other still doesn't.. so it all depends.

       

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