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ariel49554
ariel49554

Is it harder for men with herpes to tell girls and not be rejected than it is for girls to tell guys ?

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  • fred90783
    fred90783 ariel49554

    Posted

    That’s completely subjective. Each person will have different experiences telling people regarding their conditions. I don’t believe one sex has it more difficult. I know there are stories from each side regarding facing rejection or judgment. 
  • frank_95069
    frank_95069 ariel49554

    Posted

    I would think so. Girls have guys throwing themselves at them all day every day. Most guys aren't that lucky.

    • ariel49554
      ariel49554 frank_95069

      Posted

      Yeah when I talked about it with the guy I was seeing who I may have given it to he said that 

      Breaks me heart

      I just want him to be healthy and happy 

  • Ghyiop
    Ghyiop ariel49554

    Posted

    I don’t think it matters. It’s hard either way. The guy I got it from only had them orally, and was so grossed out that I got them below that he treated me awful until I broke up with him. So now I feel like I’ll never date again because I can’t imagine telling someone about this. I’m praying they come out with a cure before I die. 😂🤞🏻 

    • debbie07494
      debbie07494 Ghyiop

      Posted

      He was a  jerk  and would treat any woman badly. 
    • sydney50563
      sydney50563 Ghyiop

      Posted

      Omg me too it need to be 5,000 because I will pay that I feel like they have a cure but want to keep making money to fake cure 
  • debbie07494
    debbie07494 ariel49554

    Posted

    Can’t really say I am a girl an adult female and I have discovered that it’s me who seem to have the biggest problem.  I have told two guys that wanted to date me and they did not run for the hills. It was me who elected not to move forward with a relationship. 
  • frank_95069
    frank_95069 ariel49554

    Posted

    I wish I could find all these mature women that understand. The girl I was dating claimed she loved me and I was her soulmate until the test came back then did exactly what she said she wasn't going to do.

    • Ghyiop
      Ghyiop frank_95069

      Posted

      Maybe we should start a dating site for those of us infected. 😂 that way there’s no breaking the bad news and being scared of rejection. 

    • frank_95069
      frank_95069 Ghyiop

      Posted

      Supposedly there is one, I just haven't tried it nor do I think I am ready for that.

    • debbie07494
      debbie07494 frank_95069

      Posted

      She got scared that’s all and it’s ok for her to. Remember their is an  ignorance  about the virus. We were all in that mode at one time.
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