Had sex for the first time and now my entrance is swollen and lumpy! Please help! I'm really scared

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Hi guys I need some help to explain why my entrance is so swollen. I don't know if I'm overreacting or if something is actually wrong! I had sex for the first time yesterday and the guy I was with was very rough. It hurt the entire time and I don't think he used enough lube!

Yesterday evening, I looked down and noticed that something was protruding from my entrance (first picture). It was lumpy and when I felt around it, it seemed lumps had grown all around my vaginal opening. Like the area had swollen and was puckering around the hole. Is this normal?

Today, the lumps are still there, circling my hole but isn't irritated. I wore white underwear last night and when I checked, there were brown spots on it like watery blood. I still have normal colored discharge. It doesn't seem like pus, maybe it's just bleeding lightly? I can barely feel a difference until I sit down pressed against my chair and then there's some discomfort.

I was thinking it could just be swelling because my first time was extremely rough and painful. I just want to know if it'll go away or if anyone else has experienced something similar! Did the rough sex cause friction or did it tear something that could cause such swelling? I've never had anything swell down there before and I'm really scared.

He wore a condom so I don't think it's HPV! Does anyone know what this is? Please help! I am very scared and I don't have a way to get to a doctor's office right now! Any help is appreciated! Thank you

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    my guess is he just broke your hymen and was a little too rough. Next time Don't be afraid to speak up and tell him it's too rough. Foreplay is important too don't let him forget that!

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