Has anyone else had a fistula?
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Hi im a 29yr old female and i had a sore bum and could feel a lump on my bum, when i pressed on this lump pus oozed out of my anus. lovely i know! the doc prescribed me antibiotics which seemed to calm things down a bit. Three weeks later i had a hard day at work and the lump had swelled and was very red and painful, i saw the doc again and he sent me to a&e they operated the next day. The op wasn't bad they put me to sleep and when i woke i was a bit sore.The next day i had to have the dressing changed OMG!!! AGONY the nurses pulled this gauze out of the wound which killed, then put some more in. I was in tears for the whole thing then i learned that i would have to get this wound packed like that every single day until it healed completey.It did get easier and not so painful with every day that passed.Then i started to get pain again and pus coming from by anus again after about a week and a half.They left me like that until a month later when they did the op again. Exactly the same thing happened after a week and a half but again it took another month to get operated on. I had that op on 25th sept and AGAIN pain and pus after a week and a half so guess what, im going in for another op on 23rd Oct and i am really hoping that they find what the problem is this time!!!!!! My colo rectal surgeon says it sounds like a fistula but they haven't found it yet.if they find it i have to have like a piece of string in there to let everything drain out??? Has anyone ever had this done? what is it like to live with string hanging out of your bum? how long do you have to have it in for? I just got married and was hoping to start a family now it seems that there is no end in sight to this horribleness. I have been of from work for 3 months and am going mad i am bored out of my brain. HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
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OH MY GOD - I feel so sorry for you. Ive had the op once and it was bad enough - would not wish it on my worst enemy. I think they have made a mistake with me because I was packed when I had the op but when it was removed (I did it myself in the bath in the hospital on the advice of the nurse because Id heard the horror stories about how bad it was) they didnt repack me - said wound was in an arkward place. Dont really understand that because surely everyone has them in the same area. Anyway now I still have a sinus and Im being referred back to the hospital. My wound gives off pus every day - not painful now but just nasty. So I suppose Im in the same boat as you except you have had a worse time than me it seems. Good luck with your next op - let me know if you get any results................then you can get down to the serious and more exciting business of starting your family!!
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I now have a drain in and something called a seton suture which drains everything out of the area and doc says it will stay in for one to two months. Then i think i may have another op to start healing these fistulas.
I feel very very sore and have remained in bed since the op, they discharged me the next day. Still having the wound packed every day and all doctors and nurses have told me that this is essential because the wound has to heal from the inside out or your wound will heal over but with a gap behind which will fill up with pus etc and get reinfected.
I just feel so relieved that they have found the problem and now can look forward to recovering fully. I felt like i was on a road to nowhere before.
I go for an mri scan soon because they think all my troubles may be down to crohn's disease.
MAKE SURE YOU GET YOUR PACKING DONE EVERY DAY!!
GOOD LUCK EVERYONE I'LL KEEP YOU POSTED :wink:
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I know you are board but stick with it, you do not want to put any stress on the wound you do not have to and make sure they pack it every day. Take your painkillers about half an hour before they are due, that can help a bit.
A friend of mine had it in exactly the same way as you have and it did eventually heal so there is lots of hope!!!!!
You can have these things anywhere that has hair and sometime places with no hair, mine was under and above my clitoris! 5 years now (Just realised thought it was only 4.5)
I understand how you feel as I am on my fith surgery, last time it was a plastic surgical reconstruction and the flamin thing came back again! Now on full laser hair removal from that site so fingers crossed!
I wish you the very best of luck
POORLY_BUM
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I did get some pain and a little hard lump felt like it was swelling so i told the district nurse, she gently put a probe in the wound in the direction of the lump and found a small channel around 2cm she said they would need to pack this as she thought it was perhaps healing over and getting pus trapped in or she thought some sorbsan ribbon was getting stuck in there.
Today they have changed my dressing to something with silver in it as it has better healing qualities. I think it it really important to see the same nurses as they get to know your wound. My district nurses are absoultly brill.
It seems to me that the operation to drain the abcess isn't the problem its trying to get the damn wound to heal up afterwards. Ive been off from work for over 3 months now but think i'm well enough to go back soon.
My tests for crohn's disease came back negative which is very good news so I have no idea how I ended up with an abcess as I am not hairy at all.
My nurse said that people who are on thier feet all day are prone to it i.e hairdressers, waitresses etc.
I also had a fissure which is like a small paper cut on your anus hole and hurts every time you have a poo. My G.P said he thought that there was a chance that bacteria was getting in where it shouldn't because of this small cut which wouldn't heal causing the abcess.
I have another op booked in december to remove my drain( seton suture) I'll keep you posted whether you like it or not as I am bored!!!
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POORLY_BUM
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So i just have to put up and shut up till then i have been on the waiting list since september. I wish they had just scanned me in the first place instead of leaving me in pain. 11 days to go!!!!! op booked on the 14th december.
I dont think i can carry on working and i feel awful to keep letting them down but they have been so understanding.
I wonder when this will end, they are worried about making me incontinent as the problems are so high up in my anal glands.
Any sucess stories out there?
post you after my op keep your chins up
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Thanks for your explanation of your experience and how the doctor explained it to you. It helps to know more about this.
I will be going for the 4th operation next month and I am hoping it will be to remove the seton and allow the wound to close fully. The seton has been in since December now. I just want to get back to normal life! Everything is on hold! Haven't been working 6 months now.
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Hi i am Lois yes I have it was not pleasant let me tell you? The string is wonderful I have had it in for coming up for 2 years I am 26 years old? My sturgeon mr parnaby said until every thing calms down because I am still not healed up yet? I know how you feel I was off for a year with this let me tell u my story first I noticed that I could not hardly walk don't my lump got so big it was impossible to walk. First I went to the docs and get antibiotics with in 2 days my lump burst the smell! After burst felt great but still pus still coming out then doc put me on another course of antibiotics did not clear it up then go attempted to hospital 1st operation in my life got it drained. 2nd was to drain my wound again 3rd was inflammation 4MRI scan 5 endoscopy 6 another MRI scan and then diagnosed with Crohn's colitis and now get Infliximab through my veins and things are getting so much better since on this drug and don't get me wrong there are still flare up but not as bad? If wanting more question don't hesitate to write back to me thanks for listening and reading my experience love Lois xx
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