Has anyone just given up?
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I mentioned before I thought i would brave it and go to Disney and came back worse. Well I thought I would try again and went out to eat..
The whole time all I could think was I wanted out of there it was so bad.. My husband had to eat fast and didn't even get to finish so now I feel like I am ruining other people's time.
So my decision is to just stay home.
I see no point in just being out and suffering.
It's not helping anything.
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kate47167 cheryl02260
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cheryl02260 kate47167
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Maybe it was too much to look at in there. Not sure but I am sure I HATE this!!
kate47167 cheryl02260
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cheryl02260 kate47167
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alison17886 cheryl02260
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cheryl02260 alison17886
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paula59 cheryl02260
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ben99468 cheryl02260
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I sure am sorry you are having such a bad time. My words of wisdom to relay are are along with what I think Paula59 said about this being non-life threatening. I absolutely hate what it has done to my life, but I am just so glad that it is not life threatening. I keep telling myself that it should get better. To what degree is my biggest worry. I feel this way especially during a down day.
We must try to stay positive. Even though I personally do not believe the exercises actually help, and I think they are just something to do to keep us busy while time is actually what is healing us, I do believe that we need to do something, to believe that we are actually helpling with our recovery. I think it helps us stay positive. That is why I keep doing them despite my disbelief, but I backed way down from my original stance.
I just exercise a little but I try to stay busy by doing things that I like to do because I read in Maria Montessouri's biography where she believed that real rest and relaxation comes from doing things that you like to do, not sleeping and lying around. So I try to do things I like to do as my stay busy things. I have been a subscriber of her philosophy ever since I read about it, and I believe it is true.
I think that just doing things and staying positive is all we really need do. If we get too wrapped up in doing the exercises, taking the medications, listening to the health professionals, we become more and more aggressive with the whole thing. I think I for one, start thinking that if some is good more is better and it will lead to a quicker recovery. Then I think I over do it, have a down day and feel despair.
So if a trip to Disney is too much, back the level of physical stimulas down a little and see if you can tolerate something a little less stressful, but please don't dispair and give up. Your people love you and they want to help if they can, so instead of looking at yourself as such a burden, let them have a hand in your recovery by letting them look out for you a little. Just be sure to tell them how much it means to you. Show your appreciation for their help, they will be rewarded by their actions.
I hope you can find some solice in what I have tried to say, I think it works for me. Take care and keep positive.
Ben
cheryl02260 ben99468
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I have a hard time letting others help me.. I've always been the one that does everything for everyone and I don't know how to do otherwise.. Although I guess I am learning through this. I understand not letting others do stuff has probably kept them from having the reward of serving and I need to remember that.
I also have MS and when I'd get MS dizziness I would say I'd rather be in a wheelchair from weak legs than have dizziness. Only peope that experience vertigo could understand that statement.
I am working so hard on keeping hope but hate this feeling.
Mags.1962 cheryl02260
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deb39563 cheryl02260
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marion50354 cheryl02260
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Also, if you ARE depressed--which it sounds like you might be--what about taking anti-depressents?
cheryl02260 marion50354
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I know others have even been to more drs than I.
As for depression.. Don't think that but yes anxiety, fear and just so sick of it without knowing how to help things move faster.
Fudgeybear1 cheryl02260
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cheryl02260 Fudgeybear1
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I have MS too and whenever I'd have an attack I'd fight it the whole time causing myself more anxiety I'm sure.
Thank God my husband is VERY understanding.. I have had MS our whole marriage plus he isn't really a person that insists on going out. That works out really well since I can't and don't want to either.
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