Have herpes, unprotected sex
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I was diagnosed herpes 2 five years ago. I didnt aware I had it and was in relationship. Until the first outbreak I got tested, same as my ex. His result came out positive, we didnt know who got first but we supported each other.
We broke up almost 2 years ago, we remained friends and he already started a new relationship one year ago. He told me sometimes he didnt use any protection with his gf(she knows) and she has been okay.
I know that herpes can pass to others even there is no outbreak, but from my ex expeirence, his gf and him are good so far. Just wonder if anyone has similar expereince with his/her partners? If you have unprotected sex when there is no outbreak?
I have met a guy and told him the whole situation. He said he doesnt care and still want to be with me. He wanted to have unprotected sex, but i really dont want to put him at risk. I did saw others for short time also with unprotected sex. He got tested a few month ago and result came out negative.
Please share with me if you have similar experience with me.
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Cmcknob zumanity55872
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Wanted to offer another point of view... I am in love with a man who's hsv2 positive. He didn't tell me until 9 months in after we had had unprotected sex dozens of times. I was hurt but I stayed because I know he loved me and just didn't know how to tell me. He hasn't had an outbreak in over ten years and he made the mistake of lying to himself and thinking he couldn't infect me. He recently broke it off with me and I've not gotten tested because I'm honestly beyond caring about anything right now.
My point is that just because someone is too ashamed to tell you and they screw up, it doesn't mean they don't love you. It speaks to their immaturity and some selfishness, but by no means is the litmus test of whether or not they love you. People do stupid s**t. We're a flawed species
Kornitheturttle zumanity55872
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Hello i hope this will help to some1. 4 years ago my gf told me that she have GH, i was like ok.. asked her what that means..and how we are going to deal with it etc. Well ill be short, i dont like sex with condoms so i took that risk, we are pretty much caerful.. she can feel symptoms before the real outbrake.. so then we wont have sex untill "our" herpes totally disappear
as you all know, it can last few days.. no problem hun, heal your self it will go away.. those are my words. Im faithful guy i dont want to test myself, maybe its better that i dont know if i have the virus or not. I just know that we have unprotected sex now for 4 years and there is no outbreaks for me.
kin44911 zumanity55872
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I was jus diagnosed with it 2 days ago and the person who infected me knew he had it we had had sex before but I didn’t have it then because i went and had a check up but i went back for my new 6 months check up and they told me i was positive for H1&2. This feels lik the worst thing ever to happen to me in my life i ferl lost i ferl like God betrayed me because i have been with this guy multiple times n never caught it not knowing he had it and the one time i go back on my word about messing with him i find this out then he has the nerve to say I thought you knew how can I know when you have never told me i am hurt i feel disgusted with myself if i could I would jus crawl under a rock n die but not after i kill him im hot behind this shyt