Have I passed hsv2 onto my boyfriend? So worried!!
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I was diagnosed with hsv2 on my bum cheek 3 years ago. I have a new partner, only been together couple of months. I have always been safe, using condoms and not having sexual contact during outbreak. I've only had 2 outbreaks in the past 3 years. My last outbreak, I waited until sores had healed before having intercourse. But 5 days after intercourse my partner has come down with bad flu symptoms. What are the chances he's contacted the infection? I know it is contagious even with no symptoms. Just wondering if it's possible he now has it? He has no sores, just bad flu symptoms. He did sleep with the window open the night before his symptoms started. I'm just so worried. This will ruin our relationship if he has, a friend of his told him to stay away from me as I have it. He didn't take to kindly to hearing that but I was honest and admitted it. I feel so dirty, and I don't know what I'd do if he has got it.
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as666
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as666
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lauren74052
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But I understand how hard it is. I have been there. 10 years ago I got the virus and I was DEVESTATED! I was so innocent and never even had a cold sore in my life. Back then the information wasn't as available as it is now, and people just told me to forget about it , it isn't contagious when there are no sores etc etc. So I really really really really really regret not telling partners about it. I feel sick about it even today ! I have since then followed up with anyone who I may have exposed to it and they are all fine. Luckily! I am quite sure I have never passed it on to anyone?
Do yourself a favour and tell him about it sooner rather than later. Otherwise like me, you may feel guilty for the rest of your life.
ambient rebecca08326
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