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Have we drifted apart?

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sam18386
sam18386

Hi. after nearly 15 years married i don't know if i can be bothered any more. i see my husband so much less as he works, i can understand that, but what i don't understand is why when we're finally together he wants to be on his own. He's forever on his phone, he just has stopped. We don't go out, we don't see anyone and i feel like a spare part and sometimes a cleaner. Should i go? would he even notice? i have had enough something must change. we had a joint goal of having a child which he doesn't show me he's ready to handle. i feel like a mother to him. i feel like nothing and it's hurting me - a lot, i don't often say this...

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