Having sex problems with my boyfriend

The obvious would be to check his testosterone levels and see if they are on the lower side. 

Some supplements as Arginine may help as well.

Also you may want to fix his diet for increased T. levels - http://sexual-exhaustion.org/the-top-10-foods-that-boost-testosterone/ for instance.

This could related to diet and stress maybe as this is was your first time.

It would be better if you guys talk to each other about what you guys like and dislikes in terms of sex.

what i find works better for me and my partner is a real good long foreplay.

communicating is the best solution i feel as you bot need to know what works and what doesnt. You could try dressing up and trying different positions try to relax yourself both and not rush into penetrative sex but enjoy a good foreplay. Thus could help to build up a good tension. 

Sex is very important in every couple’s life. As you mentioned about the problems you are facing with your boyfriend. It may be due to stress, anxiety or depression. If you both are worried about your sexual performance or even any one of you is then it can spoil the scenario.  

As you said - You guys end up breaking condoms which shifts the focus from the sexual activity and that’s when things turn around.  Here are few things you need to take care of.

Talk to your partner

Just give yourself time

Maintain physical affection

Practice touching

Use lubrication

Try different positions (In which you both are comfortable)

Give time to these activities and hopefully things will change in your favor!

Hi Anna! Sorry if this is a little late, I'm having the same issue with my boyfriend the past few weeks, it's improved the last couple of days. We always always use durex condoms but everyone knows they're a little pricey, so we tried some Pasante ones and we only got a few and whenever we used them they would split or he would loose his erection or wouldn't be able to ejaculate! We've went back to durex and everything is fine so maybe try and change condoms see how that works! It's just a thought because I've had the same situation. Hope this helps Anna :-) 

Hey, Anna! The problem is definitely not in you! If you're having a bad sex, and you say that he can't stay hard, the problem is definitely in his erection. He can't finish with a weak erection and cannot give you an orgasm as well. This is the problem. You need to fix that. Try more foreplay, and if even it's not helping, then I think that he should use some levitra! It's a very nice substance that raises the libido and potention. Moreover, levitra preis is very low, so it should be the perfect option for you.