He Cheated. I'm positive but he's negative???
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Hey all. It's been a rough couple of weeks but I'll try to make it easy to read.
- My guy and I have been together from April to November with our last intercourse on Nov -16th.
- I got tested before sleeping with him in March and May to be sure and everything was negative (previous partner before that was on Feb 14th).
-Found out my guy cheated on me back in July so I went to get a full panel.
-He swears it was just with one other girl. I have been very faithful.
-I got tested Dec. 6th. HSV1 came back positive IGG 4.38. HSV2 came back positive IGG 1.10. I went for a second opinion Dec 13th. and came back positive HSV2 IGG again but lower at IGG 1.06
-Ex just got his results Dec 21st and hes negative. <0.90. I just dont understand how this can be possible. He did show me his screenshots of his results btw and the way he was laughing and gloating, it's definitely a real result.
-I am asymptomatic. Have never had any break out or any thing at all.
-I just got a positive on my Biokit. It’s positive but the doctor is confused too. He said to come back in two months. My numbers are so low, I have no symptoms, my ex is negative so my doc says he’s not worried at all.
- I'm looking to get a Western Blot done soon. I’m just so confused.
Any info would help please. Thank you.
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kiki48026 JaneIsConfused
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i would def get a western blot that a low positive which 25% the time those iggs will give. A western blot will give you a final answer. Also, sometimes your hsv1 antibodies will spike your hsv2 antibodies which will give you a low positive.
JaneIsConfused kiki48026
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hello and thanks for the response. Can it effect the biokit test like that too? ive been reading that the biokit is very accurate and im so discouraged and scared
kiki48026 JaneIsConfused
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i have never heard of the biokit i would go to the forum honeycomb its a herpes forum & they respond on their very often and they have lots of info i would go ask your question on their also terri warren who works with the western blot kits and is an experiment in herpes has a website where you can pay her 20$ for a question she is a doctor who specializes in herpes so you will get a professional answer
JaneIsConfused kiki48026
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I remember now that a while back he had sores in his mouth that he complained about. we didnt have oral sex does that effect my results for HSV2 at all? also i just learned that yeast infections, bv, and vaginal tearing during sex could be actual symptoms of herpes. I remember having these when i was with him...i feel awful now
JaneIsConfused
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I remember now that a while back he had sores in his mouth that he complained about. we didnt have oral sex does that effect my results for HSV2 at all? also i just learned that yeast infections, bv, and vaginal tearing during sex could be actual symptoms of herpes. I remember having these when i was with him...i feel awful now
kiki48026 JaneIsConfused
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If he had sores kn his mouth and you did not have oral sex you should be fine. Skin to skin contact is how it is passed. It is very rarely passed through saliva etc. Tear yeast infections and bv do accompany herpes in most cases but that doesnt mean you have herpes. Herpes can form as tears though instead of the usual ulcer like sores. If you get another cut or tear i would get it swabbed asap within 48 hours. I wouldnt stress about it I know its a cliche thing to say but I spent months stressing about my situtaion and its made me nothing but miserable
kiki48026 JaneIsConfused
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Also, tears during sex can be symptoms of other things I would get a western blot so you can be at ease
decoriunGee kiki48026
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is it possible for an outbreak to clear up the same day it pops up?
kiki48026 decoriunGee
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not likely at all a typical outbreak takes 2-3 weeks to go away a minimum of on week
decoriunGee kiki48026
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the day i took my previous positive test , i noticed 6 frictionl tears on my foreskin that looked like little reddish orange speckles of blood when i stretched the skin but little tears when it wasnt stretched. i got tested went home looked that night the color was gone in all of them , they looked like little tears. woke up next morning skin was completely healed but igg was still >5.00 other than that ive never had any lesions ive been obsessively observing my genitals since being told i was potentially exposed a month and a half ago im just dumb founded on how my results were 0.20 2 weeks ago and now they are "high positive"
JaneIsConfused
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Hello just updating. First bloodworks showed 1.10, then 1.06.
Got Western Blot and another IGG test while waiting for Blot.
IGG test then came back 7.00 and Blot came back positive.
I guess I wasnt one of those low positive= false positives ones =/