Heavy nightfall in extreme stress

@Har123456

Thanks a lot for your reply

I know what you are saying is right but for me these nightfall incidents have happened because I was under extreme stress not due to sexual desire

I know it may sound false but it's true.

The problem is I didn't have nightfall in teens. It has started only now...in my 30s but due to a different reason as I said above

Now what's your opinion?

Thanks again for your reply

no doubt stress affects everything, and wether or not you have nightfall you should try to reduce stress as much as possible for overall health and surely for this too.

stress and anxiety will make difference.

ok so you didnt masturbate in your teens?

then for sure it can be disturbing, i would say to you that it is not a big issue as it stands but what you should do is reduce stress, most people (unless they are spiritually evolved enough to be a true celibate (not a celibate who is supressed) have some sexual desire that will need to be channeled. most wise masters suggest a healthy married life. you have to work that out for yourself. it can be that there are natural changes in your body. i dont know your life, but sexuality, and sexual energy is a big topic.

i would say check yourself that you are not supressed and that if you have sexual desire it is channeled in a positive loving way, if you are evolved enough it does not have to mean sex.

next reduce stress as much as possible as this will make a difference, it affects everything.

dont plague your life with this as a worry, use it as an oppertunity to listen to your body and to live a more integrated, stress free, loving life.

Thanks a lot for such a nice reply

Ok I realised I didn't put things correctly. Totally my bad. Sorry

Yes I didn't masturbate in early teens also but a couple of times I felt nightfall happened by seeing spot on my undies. But it didn't bother at all.

What's happening now is totally different. This wasn't the case when it happened during 1-2 times in teens.

Now it's very heavy... enough to spoil clothes and bed. In teens it maybe happening as a natural process as you said but now all the time and I can relate it to happening when I am extremely stressful . I don't think it's a coincidence.

It happened again yesterday. Heavy enough to be seen on my pajamas again. The worrying thing is that though it's "nightfall " but it happened within short afternoon nap. I know I was very stressed ...so frequency also seems to be increasing . Few nights back I had this heavy one and yesterday afternoon I had it again

That's why I am really worried. But there's no way I can see a doctor .

Thanks again for your reply

why can you not see a doctor?

not saying you need to, but what i would say, is that i wonder how well you know your own mind, your desires and your body....

you essentially say you have no sexual life.....that is usually not normal and to me makes sense it would lead lead to such things as nightfall.

the fact that it is more now is also normal to my mind, my guess would be due to repression.

you say you are so stressed and anxious, so that means you are surely repressing something within you and not being true to yourself in some way,

same goes for the sex, you seem to suggest that you should have no sexual desire...have you transmuted all your sexual energy in to perfect spiritual devotion? if not then you are most likely repressing yourself. and as time goes on you may be building that repression and increased nightfall can be a result.

i suggest taking a good look within yourself and your beliefs etc and cultivate an integrated spiritual, love centered relationship with your mind body and soul and things will get better.

piling up anxiety upon anxiety will only make things worse.

dont expect a magic pill for something that is surely revealing to you a much deeper picture for you to see and discover, take it as an invitation to discovering yourself.

that fact that it all seems completly random to you suggests to me that you just dont know yourself well enough, you have to cultivate a healthy relationship with your mind/body/soul.

Thaks alot for your reply again

I can't see the doctor that's due to some personal reason

I don't know about repression of sexual energy ...but masturbation feels uncomfortable . I have been raised such . All these years nothing happened and suddenly body is expressing stress in this way it's weird.

But it's reliving that this problem isn't serious

i am currently reading a very powerful book that could help you. search the tao of sexology by stephen chang. it could really open your eyes.

i wouldnt ignore the issue, i dont see how there is not repression in this circumstance. most people have no understanding of sexual energy and how it should be used

Hi

I didn't say mine is not sexual repression. I said I don't know about sexual repression. How can I find that out if I am repressed? Because I thought it's just extreme stress. The reason of stress is not anything sexual but something else