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i was told by my GP in 2013 I had herpes. I am 56yers of age and was not ready for this news. I didn't have another outbreak for 18 months and almost convinced myself she was wrong. But sadly I have had 2 outbreaks in the last 4 months following a broken leg hence a low immune system I am told. I try to be positive but I have told two boyfriends nd they have both disappeared once they knew.
i am not keen on being alone for the rest of my life but at my age and with this problem it seems inevitable. Hoping someone can give me suggestions and hope x
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princess52104 elaine8159
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elaine8159 princess52104
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I guess it says more about them than me but it is pretty depressing when my age already goes against me for meeting someone
i am normally a pretty positive person but I guess two outbreaks in such a short time take there toll. And the weird things they are on my bum cheek!! Didn't even know it could be anywhere on your body
princess52104 elaine8159
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omg because i was with my ex boyfriend 4 1/2 years and he was my first everything im 23 ive been with him since i was 18 never cheated or with anyone else and he gave it to me there days where you get so depressed and you just sit and cry then after 1 month he left me for 4 months then just came back this month thats the point other people dont want to risk there life of the chance of catching herpes i know sometimes you might feel down but you cant let herpes take control its just like having period month to month
elaine8159 princess52104
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I have not been physical with anyone since I found out as they both did a runner! I would just love to meet someone with the same medical problem as it would be so simple
hope everything works out with your ex andthanksfor taking the time to reply. I am at the wallowing stage tonight but your reply means I am not totally alone. Thank you
princess52104 elaine8159
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elaine8159 princess52104
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i am throwing myself into work right now and that is filling my time. Wish I could talk to family but I know them well enough to know they wouldn't understand at all. It would just give them something else to criticise me for!
i hope that someday I meet someone that doesn't run a mile but I will take your advice and wait as long as I canbefore admitting it and also try not to do it with such guilt
princess52104 elaine8159
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