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Loopot234
Loopot234

Hi guys, I'm new too this page but I have been diagnosed with type 2 for about 3 months now,  I've been coping very well but now I have an issue. The boy I think who gave it me, I still haven't told him because I don't have the courage, we've had sex since and he hasnt mentioned anything to me. He wants me to go round Monday but I've been taking my tablets and now I'm left with 2 spots which aren't pussing and I feel no pain, they look like their scarring? I'm just wondering, am I still going to infectious but then will he even experience an outbreak if he's already got it? Thanks guys really need your help 

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  • FelizCastus
    FelizCastus Loopot234

    Posted

    If he definitely has it, then you can't give it to him. He's already infected for life and his tendency to have outbreaks or not will not be impacted by re-exposure. The question is whether he definitely has it.

    • Loopot234
      Loopot234 FelizCastus

      Posted

      That's what I thought but im 100% it is him because after having sex for the first time with him I flared up after 2 weeks and the doctor said it's most likely your last partner which was him. The issue is why won't my spots go, they've been there for about 2 weeks now, they look like their scaring their painless and you can't see them unless you look microscopically, I'm still taking my tablets, what should I dosad

    • Loopot234
      Loopot234

      Posted

      And I also did catch and cut one of my spots shaving about a week ago so could that be why?
    • FelizCastus
      FelizCastus Loopot234

      Posted

      You could always say no, not this time, I'm busy! Or, I have my period. Wait till you're fully healed. Sex with a current or tail-end outbreak could potentially hurt or cause things to flare up, so why subject yourself to that for a guy who possibly gave you this? I'm sure he can wait, lol.

  • so06472
    so06472 Loopot234

    Posted

    Nothing to do really, except wait it out. It can leave a ''scar'' for a little while. It will go away by itself. As for if he has it or not, you might want to must the courage to tell him. He might not even know he has it. It tough and embarrassing but it has to be done sonner than later.

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