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Hi there have you been to your doctors and told him how bad you feel because if you havnt you need to make an appointment ASAP if you are taking medication it obviously isn't helping so you need something different either way you need to make a doctors appointment now.drinking only will make things ten times worse and if you have a four year old son you need to be sober to take care of him you have to find a way to start to look after yourself because you are the only one who can do this what about close family or friends do you have someone who you can talk to when you feel  this bad, if not use this forum there is always someone on here who will listen and try to support you here's no shame in saying I need help no one will think the worst of you  you'd be surprised how many people feel like this I have been on medication for many years and I will stay on medication until I feel in control again however long it takes, sometimes I think I'm doing fine but then something will happen and I'm right back there again struggling but now I'm not afraid to ask for help.

i hope you find a way through this take care of yourself

sue

Hi

Maybe speak to your GP you have to get help you can't be on your own is there anyone that can be with you if not then please talk to me I know what it's like I have been there myself so I'm here if you want to talk

hi try a site called friends in need sign up ..its a very supportive group ..goodluck

Hi you have to be completely honest with the doctor and tell them how bad you feel and how it's affecting your life or else they can't treat you effectively what does of mirtrazapine are you on it may be not enough to lift your mood I know it generally takes from two to four weeks to feel a little better, you may even need a change f medication either way don't suffer alone and don't be frightened talk to the doctor and keep on talking on here there's a lot of sympathy as people know what your going through.

take care

Please try  not to drink on these tablets.Try to get out of your home as much as possible to get  some fresh air for youself and child, take him to the park.Take him to mums and Tots groups or playgroups.Take him to the Library.Play games with him.You must let your Doctor know how badly you feel and ask for referral to any groups,therapy,etc that may be available.I do know how you are feeling.I have suffered with depression on and off for forty years I have worked all of my life and been on and off tablets during this time .I am now retired and looking back I can see that I had many good years as well as the bad times.Do not give in you have to keep on going and carry on.When you are down you cannot see an end to it however I know from experience things can get better.I wish you well and hope you will be able to get the help you need and get through this bad period.