Help~ Depression but not only that now.....
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I noticed that I do have depression somehow before, however it doesn't really affect me that much cox I can stay home, cry and hide myself. Nobody can notice but just seeing me being happy all the time. I don't think was that a big issue for me before but I do call sick at work when I'm depress or bad mood. I don't want to talk to anyone but just go home after work. Recently I have been moving in with my boyfriend and I started to notice things seems getting worse. I was very happy at the beginning of the day and all of a sudden, I was really upset but he did nth wrong or nth really bad triggers me. Or I just being so happy for like few days with him, but suddenly I don't want to talk to him for few days also. It really affect my relationship and being commited to others. My previous boyfriends said I have no emotions or blank, but actually I have plenty of emotions, they can't see much but i'm just not talking or don't feel interested in anything at all sometimes which isn't true. I'm actually a social person that I will talk to strangers, party and drink. But I do stay home for no reason even there's sth organized, I can just ditch people for no reason cox I don't wanna see anyone and be alone. My mood swings a lot in a day, sometimes few days in a roll or a week or two. I dunno what's going on, can anyone help me?
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borderriever vivian1234
Posted
You are going through a stressful time at the moment, you are moving in with a new Partner and that can be very concerning. We never know a person until we move in together and close the door. Both of your will be wary of the change and will be watching how the relationship is going to work. Give it time and hope all will settle.
Moving in means you have also said goodbye to a past lifestyle. Give it time, relationships are partnerships, some will lead to marriage and children, these are massive changes as you move to adulthood.
You were involved with someone before, we learn from experience and sometimes we relate to those past periods.
We go through some big changes when young when we cut the apron strings, we start our adult lives. another uncertainty., give yourself time.
If your depression is really bad, talk to your Doctor, medication may not be given, help may consist of CBT
BOB
vivian1234 borderriever
Posted
Thanks a lot for your reply. Actually one of my ex bf cheated on me before, after that I did go through like loads of crazy stuffs like drugs, getting drunk sleeping with whoever and started smoking. It was like the worse time in my entire life. I can't commit to anyone afterwards even I knew that they do really love me. I started to get scared of commitment and just broke up with everyone of them. I don't think I want to revenge on guys cox I do like them at the beginning but then, I started to lose interest or maybe once I found out sth wrong, I will just give up straight away without making any effort. I don't see commitment important anymore in my life, even I was commited to someone, I don't think is necessary and I did cheat. My boyfriend now, I can see a future with him because he wanted to work out on our relationship. He knew I got emotional problem and being hurt before. I just don't want all these to mess up things but I can't help to overcome.