HELP! I'm a mess!!!
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I am 45 years old and experiencing menopause. I am looking for any help and support I can get. My periods were regular until January of this year. Now I have one every 40-50 days and they are light. April 28th my doctor took me off of work until July 28th because I am just a mess! She put me on Primpro and anxiety meds (which have actually helped me get off the couch) I can't drive very far because I can't focus and feel confused. I have had to pull over and just sit until my mind clears and the sweating stops. My hands and bottoms of my feet sweat, I have numbness in my arms legs and neck. I get what feels like an overload of adrenalin and scares the crud out of me. I have been to the ER several times in the beginning because I really thought I was having a stroke. I have had every test possible and they all come back normal with the exception of my hormones. I woke up this morning sick to my stomach and clammy all over. I actually forced myself to go out with my husband yesterday to lunch and to the grocery store. (was not fun but I did it) Even though I know it menopause I still keep thinking maybe the doctors are missing something, I know they aren't but I just can't believe that menopause has made me this sick. I was an active, happy person and now I am stuck in this mess! HELP?
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elizabeth142 momocip
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The trouble is with this change of life, it affects everyone of us differently. I've even had spotting after two years back in march! I had to go to the hospital for an ultra scan. But the guy said that things sometimes happen to our bodies we can't explain.
He said everything was normal. He sent me on my way. I recieved a letter back telling me everything was normal.
So unless you are vomiting, or bleeding heavily, it's nature unfortunately. If your tum is bloated, or you have pain get it checked out.
It can make you sleepy especially for me in the afternoons. I teach and I'm totally knackered when I'm
On the bus, I fall asleep! But anyway, as long as you are not feeling lots of pain, I wouldn't worry too much.
As for the sweating that might be something to do with your hormone glands. If it happens regularly.
Go see your GP they can help with you with excessive sweating. I don't know if you like to watch embarrassing bodies on tv I do I must say I've learnt quite alot, from watching it. Anyway take care 🐥
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I think you'll find that people fall into one of two categories here either for or against HRT, personally I'm against as you have to come off it at some stage so you're putting off the inevitable. Why not try natural methods first? there are loads out there. Lots of people recommend Maca here, and Vitex agnus castus. I go for D3, B vitamins (calm your nerves) and omega 3 as well as a strict anti inflammatory diet. Everyone's different and everyone reacts differently so you have to try things out. I'd just like to point out that my mum was a healthy active woman and she got breast cancer after HRT.
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else in my life to happen like my, daughter having her children or my youngest daughter getting married, for me to focus on them rather then me. After my youngest was married last October I went into a bit of a depression after all the excitement. It was a horible feeling and it got worse over the winter. The worst for me was the constant migraines, they were laying me up for three and four days at a time. Thats when I made a decision I should start on HRT to get some quality of life back while I was still young and enjoy myself again, I would worry about coming off it later. I made an appointment to see a female doctor about the same age as myself. This was the best thing I could have done because she has been a great help. I poured my heart out to her. I had a blood test that confirmed I was in menopause but we both decided against HRT because it seems as if I've gone through the worst of it already. But
my anxiety and headache were really bad so she started me on atenolol which is a beta blocker. I've been on them three weeks now and I can honestly say I feel a lot better then I have in a long time. The adrenalin rush that you spoke about I also suffered with has gone completely. I had an appointment today with my now wonderful lady doctor and she checked my blood pressure and heart rate (beta blockers slow it right down) and she was happy to give me a repeat prescription and said I should go back and visit her regular if I need to. Those words alone made me feel better, just knowing someone is taking notice make all the difference. Or maybe I'm her guinipig for when she's going through her menopause.
Sorry if I've gone a bit but your not going through this alone and you will be active again one day, hang on in there and take care. X