HELP!!Worried about something going on down there! Herpes or just a tear?

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Hey, I am desperate for some advice as I can't get to the clinic until Monday and I'm really stressing about what's going on!

For about 2 weeks now, when I go to the toilet (not for a wee) I bleed, but it's not from my back passage it's from just underneath my vagina opening!

It's very painful and I'm really worried! To me it looks like a tear but I know I can't be too sure because the other option could be herpes, which obviously I'd prefer not to have!

There are no clusters or anything and images I've seen doesn't look like what mine does! But I did have unprotected sex a few times with the same guy, however he was of a large size so it was painful at times if it was rough so the tear could be from that, and it might not be healing.

Please help! I'm so worriedsad

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    When I have sex with my partner he's quite big I get a tear there which also hurts for few days after especially when siting in the toilet position , try to not be so dry b4 he enters this can help xxx

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    *PICTURE* Here is the image, it is only one sore/tear, none anywhere else! Please help, I'm so worried!

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      Hi I don't think it looks like the tear I had, mine was vertical down the centre yours looks like ??an ulcars or blister burst , looks open, it could still be a tear side ways or its maybe the way im looking at it , but do try to make ?an app over this cause I would say it's not a clear cut,? Could be nothing tho try not to worry and go get seen today

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      1st look she said it could be herpes, went to swab it, asked me if I had rough sex and I said yes and she said, after a second look it could just be a tear, she seemed to be saying it's more likely a tear after the second look but gave me antibiotics anyway in case! Swabbed it, just have to wait a week now so keep fingers crossed for me haha!

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      Good job she swabbed any way I have known a Dr to do this to me and gone I don't think its that so im going to give you treatment for what I think it is but to save ppl the worrie and bother they should swab if your there I think they just don't want to touch you half the time it's disgusting my my surgery anyway gota pratically tell them what it is xx

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      Thankfully I had a great woman, she told me not to rule anything out but the only symptom she can think of it being herpes is the position it's in, but upon second look said it looks more like a tear. However, I'm going to keep an open mind that it could be either because I don't want to convince myself it's not, and then the results to come back positive! Really hoping its negative thoughsad thank you for all your responses though! Xx

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