Herpes?
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I broke with my partner (we later got back together) and during that time had sex with a girl about a month and a half ago. I pushed in several times before putting on a condom but had one on the rest of the time. She contacted me a few weeks later telling me I should get tested because I may have something (I know I didn't have herpes beforehand). She said she had some symptoms like red bumps, no itching of pain. Her results came back negative and apparently a specialist saw her and it came back the same. I then saw no reason to get tested but got a cut along my frenulum while masturbating. anyway I had sex with my partner that exacerbated the cut and again a couple days later unprotected that made it worse than that.. This seemed like a simple cut that I stupidly made worse. I then put coconut oil on it for a few days and I noticed three small blisters around my shaft. Not in a cluster but within a couple centimeters while erect. Anyway I punctured them and doused myself with apple cider vinegar for a couple days and it all seems to be healing. What do you think? I have had an ingrown hair once or twice many years ago but am worried that I may have herpes
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Veryconcerned barry71244
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sorry to hear the bad news man. Did the doc put u on meds? When u say u had a cut that wasn't healing..how did it look?
barry71244 Veryconcerned
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Scaredandafraid barry71244
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So it still hasn't healed yet? How long has it been?
barry71244 Scaredandafraid
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Just over two weeks. It's healed but I can still see where it was. The cut has closed up and everything
Scaredandafraid barry71244
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barry71244 Scaredandafraid
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barry71244
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There's going to be a tough conversation tonight or tomorrow. Right now I'm just a mess. I suppose there's a chance I didn't give it.
Scaredandafraid barry71244
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barry71244 Scaredandafraid
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There's no way to get through this without saying I cheated right?
Veryconcerned barry71244
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its possible u had this a while. And the cut u have might be totally unrelated. Some ppl have this herpes for years and don't know. They say as much as 80%
barry71244 Veryconcerned
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Veryconcerned barry71244
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ok...but the girl u cheated with came up negative? Unless she's mistaken or took unreliable tests. U should get a 2nd opinion. and if u are still positive then its possible ur partner was the one who had it.
barry71244 Veryconcerned
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I suppose but I got a four on the test which is very high and I've had real symptoms like the blisters and tingling legs.
Veryconcerned barry71244
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yea. its a tough spot to be in man i understand. Ur gonna have to be honest with her tho because herpes is real contagious. i mean u guys did break up at one point. Its not exactly cheating right? Im sure u told her u haven't done anything. U can tell her you saw something down there and your worried and that maybe she should get tested. see how she reacts.
barry71244 Veryconcerned
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