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hello everyone, my name is Zita and I'm 40 years old, mum to 2 girls 16 & 11. I just been diagnosed with psoriatic arthritis and I'm so scared and confused, I'm looking for people in the same boat to help me understand what I'm going through. I have suffered with scalp psoriasis for about 10 years. For about a year I had the odd pain here and there, but nothing I thought was worth going to the doctors about, but 6 months ago my knee started to hurt more regularly but I still put it down to getting old. One night I woke up in excruciating pain on my knee, could not move it at all, took a couple of hours with a bag of frozen peas to ease the pain and after taking painkillers the pain went and I carried on with my life. Just under 2 months ago that same pain came back but not just my knee, my shoulder, my elbow and my neck were affected too. I felt like I was paralysed by pain and had to be practically carried to the GP. That was the first time I ever heard of PA...I didn't even know it existed. My GP suspected it and sent me to loads of blood tests, and prescribed a load of tablets. A week later the pain was not easing so back to the GP and this time he gave me stronger co codamol and the pain started to get better. Another week and the blood tests results came back and showed inflammation, very low vit D and folic acid, so GP gave me supplements and decided to give me a 3 vial steroid injection, which he was hopeful could relieve me of pain for a month, while I was being referred to the rheumatologist. I was pain free for 3 days and then it came back with a vengeance. Back on the co codamol and naproxen but the pain was easing just a bit, I couldn't sleep as I any position made something hurt. GP asked for an urgent refferal, but that got lost and despite me trying to get things moving, nothing was happening fast enough so I went private, got an appointment within 2 days and a diagnosis. I started methotrexate 2 weeks ago, which makes me very sick and diarrhoea for 3 days, then it settles. Still on co codamol for pain as I refused the steroids the rheumy wanted to prescribe. My life has been turned upside down, almost every day I wake up with different joints hurting. I feel like the pain is eating me away, it's so disheartening when I can't even prepare my child's lunch box because my hands won't allow it. I work through an agency and they are on the verge of getting rid of me because I have taken the odd day off when the pain is just too much. I have been on anti depressants for years and I feel my depression getting worse, I don't want to leave the house or see anyone because I feel so so low. Will it ever get better? Any advice is welcome xx
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lucynewas Zita2323
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By all means PM me if you would like to chat - I recognise your pain!
Lucy
Zita2323 lucynewas
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lucynewas Zita2323
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jane_58649 Zita2323
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robert271163 Zita2323
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christopherV Zita2323
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If your psoriasis doesn't respond well after repeated use of one medication, your doctor may replace or combine it with another type of treatment.
shaziebabes Zita2323
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justinh Zita2323
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i went through several different meds. I suggest that if one does not work then move on to another one. I finally found one that worked for me but it took a couple of years. I started enbrel about 10 years ago and it worked for me, but it is expensive. You need a good medical plan. It made my psoriasis go away too.
justin
Lisa_Batts Zita2323
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My heart goes out to you. How scared and alone you must feel yet you are brave enough to want to discuss it with others to try to find out what is the best route for you. That is a positive in itself 😊😊 There's lots of good advice already on here but not everything works for everybody so try some and see what works for good. Good on the person who does exercise all the time and great it works for them but for myself personally my pain prevents me from this and the fatigue. You have been diagnosed with a chronic disease with vile treatment but don't let that be the end of the story 😊😊 methotrexate (MTX) made me so I'll when I first started taking it but now I couldn't be without it. I had 6 weeks off it due to infection and was begging to go back on it! MTX (despite what the leaflets say) can take up to six months to start working fully. After 3 months you should get an indication (an easing of the joints) to show if this is the correct medication for you. I've never had the injection but a lot of people turn to that when they suffer with bad nausea. I eat ginger biscuits and citrus fruit! That works for me. Also I have heard before about splitting the dose of MTX but I would always check with my Rheumy first. This is a powerful drug that if taken incorrectly can lead to a build up of it in your body so always check.
It does sound to me like you are having a flare up which in some ways is good because this is the worst you will ever feel. It will ease. You will feel better. Depression is a natural part of being diagnosed, treated and suffering the disease. As you learn what what's for you and get used to the medication this also gets easier. It just becomes a part of life. The flare ups are horrendous and my thoughts are with you. Make sure (when you have a grasp on it yourself) that your loved ones understand. Sit them down and talk with them. Don't try to be too proud and a hero. Learn to accept help when you need it.
I'm sorry this is so long.
I wanted to try to give you as much information as I could.
18ish months down the road for me and I have a good life. I have more good days than bad. I do myself no favours by overdoing things but also have the luxury to rest to recharge.
I would strongly recommend you get signed off from work and a letter from your specialist. For now 😊😊
I wish you luck
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Lisa
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Lisa_Batts Zita2323
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As for being sterilised I would get in touch with your Rheumy immediately. This is pure guesswork (but educated with my experience) that you would definitely stop MTX for that as the risk of infection will be very high. The reason I say speak to your Rheumy ASAP is he may want you to have been off it for a length of time before the op and maybe after.
As I said Zita this is guesswork but you stop taking it with any infection or if there could be any chance of infection.
Best of luck
Lisa
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Zita2323 Lisa_Batts
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Lisa_Batts Zita2323
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I hope you get some answers
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Lisa
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