Hiding empty viagra packs???

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Why in the world qould my bf of a decade hide completely empty viagra cases? No- I did not know he uses it and the dates go back at least 6 years. 

I understand embarrassement or shyness about use but hiding empty cases? I wouldn’t even know he is using it if he had thrown them away.  

We have a good sex life- at least 4x week and both always orgasm.

What is the point of all of these empty packets in our bathroom where I could and dis come across them without suspecting any thing 

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  • Posted

    Hope you don't mind but on a light hearted note, I am jealous of the 4 times a week and I too cannot understand why the packets were not dumped, I certainly would have!  My wife and I have to make do with other means of orgasm due to peyronies disease, we miss conventional sex very much.

    The only useful advice I could offer is to discuss it and not take it too seriously, you are still enjoying God's greatest gift after all.

  • Posted

    Good question.  I could understand it if you'd found Viagra packets that still had tablets in, but not why he'd keep empty ones.  If your sex life is that good though, I wouldn't worry about it too much.

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    Have you done any calculation as to whether you benefitted from every tablet? Many men masturbate as well as having intercourse, but might fear that their woman would feel insulted to know that they masturbate as well ("Am I not enough for you?" ) However that doesn't explain why the empty packs have been retained and hidden. Maybe at some level of consciousness he wanted you eventually to find out for yourself? Does he feel pressurised to keep up the pace, but would actually want less sex? Approach the subject gently and tactfully. Reassure him that you would love him just as much if you had less frequent intercourse. Give him space to respond to any of your questions. I suppose one option is to dispose of the packs, say nothing, and see if he notices and mentions it? Don't let this come between you. Keep it light, even humorous if you can.

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