HIV anxiety
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ive been having anxiety about taking a HIV test and i seriously need help . im pregant and have to get blood work done this week .. its freaking me out and idk .. i was diagnosed wit Hsv2 last year and the person that gave it to me slept wit alot of different young women not gay or drug user .. he also has a soon to b 2 year old son .. i havent had symptoms .. he has been to jail twice and im sure they test for HIV not hsv and im sure he would know if he did have it but im jus freaking out im terrified of getting that phone call please please help
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adam17105 queen_23523
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Hi, I understand your anxiety for HIV, I have been very worried about it for 12 months and all my tests have been negative but I can't seem to stop worrying about it.
you need to have the test done to give you peace of mind, I'm sure you don't have it.
Have the test, it'll be negative and once you have your baby you will soon forget about it all.
All the best
queen_23523 adam17105
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thankyouu so much and i think the fact that my ex already gave me HSV2 jus makes me think he also gave me something much worst .. im gonna test tomorro the waiting game and getting the phone call is gonna b the worst part i really hope it goes easy thankyou again!
adam17105 queen_23523
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Well the only way to know is to test. As you said in your original post ur sure he would know if he had so I think you are fine. HIV anxiety is a real stressful thing as I know full well. I made a stupid decision last year and I have been freaking out since then. I have a 4 year old daughter so she has been my main concern as I am scared of passing something to her.
Do you have symptoms of hsv2?
queen_23523 adam17105
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took a whole 10 months i had my first outbreak i think cuz im pregnant it was very small but ill take that over HIV anyday.. i jus did blood work please pray for me
adam17105 queen_23523
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Yeah hsv2 is nothing bad compared to HIV, although HIV isn't too bad now days as you can take medication to suppress it. Are you with the baby's father?
Everything will be just fine for you!
queen_23523 adam17105
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yes i am. he has been tested for hsv and hiv both negative .. but i hear its hard for females to transmit it to males so i still worry that i have it even tho hes clean
queen_23523
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its my ex that worries me .. he slept with alot of women smh
adam17105 queen_23523
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Well that is good, he is negative, he is obviously in a happy relationship with you, your having a child together.
He obviously understands and supports you with your hsv2 so even if you did have hiv (which I highly doubt you do) he would support you in that. I understand that your baby is probably your main concern as I can relate to that.
I hope (it will) all works out for you, and I'm sure you will be a great mother.
queen_23523 adam17105
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thankyou so much for your advice . calmed me down alot ❤❤❤❤
adam17105 queen_23523
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Hi,
How did your results turn out? Negative?