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Hiv fear... Exposure in December 2 now freaking out

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jordidr1
jordidr1

Hi everyone... december 2 I had unprotected sex with a girl I know, I'm a circumcised 27 yer old male, she thinks her boyfriend is cheating on her, and I had a tough couple of months with my wife... Not justifying it, not at all... I know I'm a piece of s**t for doing that... And now I'm freaking out... As of today I had diarrhea a couple sporadic days, the guilt and anxiety won't go away...

Now, I suffer from anxiety and depression, so December 28 I did an oraquick, which was negative and december 29 I did a test in a clinic where they draw blood from my finger and tested, came back negative... I know was only 4 weeks ago...but does it mean anything? I'm seriously freaking out... I feel all of my nerves in my stomach, I feel like crap mentally... I eat no appetite loss so I guess that's good.

I know my wife doesn't deserve what I did and hope I am negative so I can give her a full life of beautiful moments and experiences... I know sounds corny but I mean it...

I had her tested last Tuesday and Monday she'll go do an additional rapid test at a clinic, plus she should get the results by this coming week for the doctors test.

Please any help?

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    jordidr1

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    It is my test at 4 weeks good for anything? Was finger prick at a clinic and it's immunoassay antibody test
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    jordidr1

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    So it seems that my flu like symptoms are more likely to be because I have chronic anxiety... That causes big amounts of stress and that makes your body experience flu like symptoms plus it lowers the body immune response so you're more likely to catch the flu... Any opinions?
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    jordidr1

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    What are the odds she tested neg and I could be infected? She tested neg in a finger prick rapid test at planned parenthood
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