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Hiv risk please help

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marc23071
marc23071

I meet an escort and we talk friendly about life etc. I had protected sex 3 times with her over a 2 month period. Last week on the 22nd I didn't wear a condom. She is 38 whites female with kids, the only reason I know this is we talked for a time after the second visit about family and stuff. She tells me she is hiv negative and she got tested 5 weeks ago. I'm from a smallish town.  CDC says there about 350 hiv positive people in my area. What are the chances she lied to me? She requires a condom to see her but she told me since she knows I'm clean I don't need a condom. 

Do people lie about their status?

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  • PVP-ouch
    PVP-ouch marc23071

    Posted

    If you've had unprotected sex with a sex worker then you are at risk and need to get tested.

    She might have told truth or lied about her last negative test but since that test if she's had sex then she won't know outcomes since her next test

    • marc23071
      marc23071 PVP-ouch

      Posted

      I'm go to get tested, is the oraquick hiv at home test generation 4? I'm going to try and get a gen 4 test done at 4 weeks

  • mark50520
    mark50520 marc23071

    Posted

    Most dont lie but a few do. No one on here is going to be able to tell you whether she lied or not. I suggest you ask her to get screened and to show you the results.
    • marc23071
      marc23071 mark50520

      Posted

      She told me that if she was hiv positive she would let me go with out a condom. 
    • marc23071
      marc23071

      Posted

      Edit: she would not let me go with out a condom. 
    • PVP-ouch
      PVP-ouch marc23071

      Posted

      Any sex worker that's willing to risk their own health by letting a client going unprotected can't be trusted as that risk transfers to next client...in this case you!

      Get tested and don't have unprotected sex with anyone else until you're given all clear

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