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I am not the hms sufferer I am the partner of 25 years. Partner has had various problems causing pain and multiple surgeries for 15 years...only in The last year a physiotherpist diagnosed hms. I have tired to be supportive and have always been the one to find new treatments to try or information. As time has gone on my partners pain has increased along with his anger and these manifest now in what I would call rages. It means I tip toe around walking on eggshells most of the time. I have put up with it because I grieve for his loss of quality life, career and feel overwhelming sympathy for him but I feel like I am running on empty now. We have a 6 year old daughter and I can't let her continue to witness these aggressive outbursts. There is never an apology... 'the pain makes me feel that way' 'you can't know how it feels'. I don't see a future anymore and I am heart broken and sad but he wont take any resposbility and I am tired and depressed living like this. I don't have any hope left
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