How can I tell guys this?
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Hi
I have been pushing this aside for a long time been keeping busy and getting out there meeting new friends etc. I have not told many people my two close friends and obviously my ex and male friend. So I was feeling fine then started having symptoms like everyday and going to call doctors today to make appointment today.
Anyway my brother and dad wanted to try set me up someone well they been making jokes and thought I couldn't if I wanted too. Then I do chat to guys online although told guys don't want a relationship I am scared. Can't even have a casual thing well not at the moment. This has made me scared as this male friend was only one that knew about this because we had this casual thing and even that stopped and feel only drawn to him in fearof moving on and telling a new person I got this. Now this guy want to meet I feel so shut down. I will meet him and I never go there with guys first date anyway but in a weird way may feel relieved if a guy refuses to sleep with me. I am to scared to go there my first time since finding out I realise going to be hard. I supposed to me meeting a guy saturday but think will cancel not really. I will be happy not but I do miss that feeling of being hugged and kissed by someone the next step seems so hard now. I am put of that now altogether plus in fear I might pass this on even though I may have safe sex. I rather be with someone who got this and understands or person who knows I got this. This moving forward hard even if I stay single 2 years which the type of person I am won't be because I never stay single for long. Crazy all this really.
Any advice
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sasha6654 scorpio32
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That what I am scared about a long term relationship. I got too many problems anyway this just this will add to it
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sasha6654 scorpio32
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feelbroken scorpio32
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You may meet this guy and not like him and like wise. I did the same thing as you when I started dating again and learned after a few times I worried myself for no reason, because after a date or few, I learn they are not a good match for me. Do until I get to that point of seeing that something is leading into a more serious relationship, I don't need to worry about telling them.
You should not be worrying about sex at this point or telling him.
scorpio32 feelbroken
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I've been pushing this one guy away for awhile and now I sealed my fate.. He's done w me and I'm crushed. :-(
scorpio32 feelbroken
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I am thinking might just give myself a bit more time. Feel this too much pressure.
sasha6654 scorpio32
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