How do I help my 6 year old daughter with her leakage?
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My poor little girl has 2 problems, her urine leaks and her bladder is not emptying fully when she goes to the toilet. She goes to school fresh and clean everyday and comes home damp and smelling very bad! Being 6 she is very embarrassed to tell her teacher that she needs to change.all the hospital does is give her drugs that don't work and tells her to double urinate. This is just not working! She is constantly wet! I am at the end of my tether and I don't know what to do for her! Please help! X
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gail98771 danevans1981
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Good luck!
lynn53651 danevans1981
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I hope your daughter can relax so she doesn't make herself worse by worrying to much.
mack0770 lynn53651
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swampy1901 danevans1981
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angelarw52 danevans1981
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helen248 danevans1981
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lynn53651 helen248
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Blessings to you
Lynn
laura12516 danevans1981
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She potty trained quick and easy, like a week. She's a kid that likes being a do right and interacting with adults... In 2013 we moved and had our second daughter. A few months later she started preschool as well. I thought she had regressed since symptoms seemed to appear shortly after all these changes took place.
Fast forward two years, I finally figure out that it might not be stubborness/ laziness/ regression/ attention getting. Went to the doctor, he put her on oxybutyin. Ended up upping it to 10mg eventually, which still isn't making any difference. She's had 3 UTIs in the last 18 months.
Went to a urologist two weeks ago, they think she might be constipated. Cleaned her out and we are still having issues with both leaking and wetting. It's mostly leaking. She is usually completely red when she gets home from school. She says she can't feel she's wet.
She will sit on the toilet for 2 minutes and try to "push it out". She strains to to go. When she's not near a toilet she sits funny and says she can't move and "pushes it back in".
Double urinating was suggested but doesn't work. She has such a negative view of the bathroom. I'm partially to blame because I'm constantly reminding her. I think she looks at the bathroom as punishment because she's always going. She goes pee at least 15 times a day. None of which is because she feels a normal need to go. It usually is after she's wet herself or because I tell her to.
I'm going to start sending her to school in pull ups so she doesn't smell. I feel so bad for her, I wish I would have figured out this issue sooner instead of thinking it was regression. That way she won't be remembered as pee pee pants.
Hoping to follow this thread for more possible answers. :-\ Staying hopeful in Ohio.
lynn53651 laura12516
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I have been on here before reading about the poor little girls who have what I think is overactive bladder from what I read on the internet. The other things that were mentioned on the internet was that sometimes children cannot relax their sphincters enough to empty their bladder completely.
Also , she could have a small bladder capacity as well. I think worrying about going to the bathroom or not going to the bathroom causes a lot of anxiety on the child. Physcological this is not helping and causes more stress for the child worrying about how many times she has to go or not go. Pressure from constipation will also be a factor when having to go to the bathroom as well.
All and all, the good news is I read that most children outgrow this overactive bladder as they grow older.
I would also like to ask a question please. How does your daughter feel about wearing those pull ups to school? The reason I ask is because I am in the middle of test piloting something that is helping ladies with incontinence and I was wondering about children. Ladies do not want to wear pull ups so I figured out something better for them. I was also wondering about children feeling the same way about pull ups. Please let me know how your daughter feels about wearing those and I will private message you and explain a little more what I am talking about.
Blessings to you
Lynn
jess11389 danevans1981
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Keely_1976 danevans1981
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Tilly32 Keely_1976
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MommaMe Keely_1976
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Momof378 Keely_1976
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MommaMe danevans1981
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I know this is an older post but my 7 year old has just been diagnosed with an EU
What was the final decision on what to do with your daughter? Has it help?