How do you manage to continue with work?
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Hi
I was diagnosed with PA back in January this year. I also found out that I am HLA B27 positive and have spondilitis. I had crippling back pain and wrist and finger pains. I tried to ignore all of this to start with and was determined that it was nothing major and that it wasn't going to get the better of me! I started on methotrexate (15mg weekly) back in late July, but I have recently had it reduced to 10mg, due to side effects. Although I am still in some pain, my main concern now is the fatigue and general rubbish feeling that I wake up with every day. My doctor has signed me off work and said that ignoring all I have been through this year, was not the best idea. I have a physically and mentally demanding job and dont know if I can continue with it. I was wondering if anyone else struggles with working and if so, how do you get through it?
Thank you in advance x
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f70804 Lainey8
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I find that for me the most helpful thing is trying to take each day as it comes. Some days are hellish admittedly but others not so much. Hold on to the thought that it won't always be as bad as this, things should get more manageable as treatment and medication is adjusted to find something that works for you. But I know the time that can all take is incredibly frustrating.
I've had to totally rethink my approach to work. I don't have the stamina I used to have and if I do work at the same pace and intensity then I literally have nothing left for my family. I have also reduced my hours to 4 days a week. It can be utterly demoralizing and quite depressing especially if work has been a big part of your life, and I really find it tough to stay mentally strong sometimes. However it sounds like you have a sympathetic ear in your doctor. Can you ask if there are any other supports out there the GP can help you with? I know that some health authorities have access to clinical psychologists to help support people who have chronic conditions that have meant they have had to make major life adjustments. It might be worth asking?
In the meantime, find other small things that you can get enjoyment from. I find getting outside even for a short spell every day can help me keep perspective a little.
On a totally different note, when I was at my worst physically my GP suggested reducing hours temporarily instead of being off work completely - it was a good compromise as it helped make me feel mentally a little better as it kept a bit of routine and normality in my life.
Anyhoo, I hope that has been of some help and I wish you all the best. x
Lainey8 f70804
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Thank you so much for you lovely reply. I have already tried changing what I do at work and am incredibly lucky to have amazingly sympathetic people around me. Unfortunately, I am still struggling. It's positive to hear that things will get better though as I feel like I have hit a wall at the moment. I think I you are right and that pacing yourself is the way to go. Shame I didn't try that to start with as that has led to me feeling so run down now! I have also been suffering with work related anxiety, which my doctor said is the result of everything that is going on. I have tried phone counselling, which although helpful, hasn't worked. I don't like being off sick and the guilt that comes with it. I also don't like being negative but it's a struggle to see the light at the end of the tunnel right now!
f70804 Lainey8
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My rheumatologist also said I needed to realize that whilst I might want to "battle on" or "fight it" I simply don't have the stamina or the reserves that I used to have. Be kind to yourself.
I have also started seeing a nutritionist who has taken a really holistic view to everything that is happening with my health - whilst I am not sure yet if the adjustments I'm making will truly impact on the inflammation and pain, I am feeling healthier in general and the fact I have gone out and done that makes me feel more proactive, which in turn helps makes me feel a little more positive.
It's a tough thing though and try not to be too hard on yourself when you hit a wall. Even the most positive of people will feel anxious at times. And remember, just because you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel at the moment, it doesn't mean that the light isn't there 👍
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sheila65847 Lainey8
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sounds like you have meet getting good advice from the forum and your GP. don't trivialise PsA or spondylitis there are chronic, life changing conditions. Have you seen occupational health at work? If not, as your manager for a referral immediately . We are protected by the Disability Act which states employers must make 'reasonable adjustments' to support us remain in work.
I was diagnosed in 2011, experienced a very difficult time with me d's including methotrexate induced hepatitis, allergies to other DRMD 's. Also had 2 biological treatments fail to continue PsA. I, like you, battled on at work for several years, life was horrendous - work and sleep. Eventually my employer terminated my contract due to ill health in October 2014. On reflection I should have stopped sooner but my mentality was such that I was gonna beat this thing! Sadly, not possible. Wishing you well
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I didnt think I would be eligable for any financial support. I thought you had to be quite severely disabled to get anything? I shall definately look into that. Thank you. I am not in a union but thankfully, I work for a very understanding employer, who's keen to keep me at work. My wages are not very high and I dont think I can afford to drop many hours. If I can get some financial support, this would really help though. I am sorry that you are too unwell to work right now. Its awful that they havent found a drug to help you yet. I shall cross fingers for you. Thanks again for the great advice x
lucynewas Lainey8
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I have found it helpful to split my MTX (20 mg) dose into two half doses on Tuesday and Saturday nights. In addition to this they have added in sulphasalazine (increasing dose starting with 500 mg once a day to 1g twice a day). After 3 months the hairloss slowed down and my symptoms improved, but not enough to come off the steroids altogether.
I saw my specialist nurse, who said I had a choice to come off the steroids and struggle to work, or maintain a minimal dose of 3 mg per day and manage better.
It's a trial and error. Keep a really accurate symptom diary along with what doses you are taking - it takes a couple of months but really works.
Work:
I now do a compressed day, which means I do my on-site and face to face work in the mornings, with flexible afternoons to allow me to take a couple of naps - so a later finish, but I cand then still cope with the evenings.
Good luck - feel free to PM me.
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lucynewas Lainey8
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Your consultant may be able to prescribe you a short course (2 weeks) of steroids to tide you over, and then a reducing dose.
Compressed day for teachers: If your HT thinks it's practicable, do your teaching in the morning and then manage your lesson planning and marking from home. Initially this could be a temporary adjustment for 3 months while you're waiting for the MTX to kick in.
By all means message me.
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It's a pleasure - there's no point having this experience if you can't share things that make it easier. Please keep me updated with your progress.
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