How long does your first outbreak of herpes last?

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I just got told i have herpes yesterday i have had symptoms since monday eve and even ended up in hospital been told i have a really bad urine infection. I feel so disgusting that i have this and just dont know what to think at the moment, i feel so stupid that i caught this. The worst thing is i am in so much pain and have been for about 5 days i have anti bs from the doctor i only got yesterday and i am no better at the mo it stings so much everything is so uncomfy i have tried salt baths..a gel that the doc gave that numbs down there when you wee and nothing is helping please tell me this doesnt last long.

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    This is my second outbreak in less than 4 months. I am 11 weeks pregnant as well and i am so scared that it's affecting my pregnancy. I still have the medicine they gave me from the first outbreak because the time I got the medicine the outbreak was gone so I'm wondering if I should take it because this pain is so bad but I'm scared I'm gonna hurt my baby if I do that too. Please help!!!
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    Im 21 years old also 5 weeks pregnant. I did blood work and pcp said im clean this past Thursday I went to my Ob/Gyn and he took a look at the blisters that I have in the vagina area and took a swab of them also. Ob tells me that its a highly chance of it being herpes. I cant even walk sit stand or lay because the pain is their. When I pee I have to get in the shower and have water fall in the vagina area so it wont burn. But it still burns so bad to the point where I literally cry. Doc gave me antibiotics already and I need help. How long will it take till I dont have to feel this pain anymore?
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      Now is that 2 weeks after you start taking antibiotics or is it 2 weeks after the outbreak
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    I'm so sorry to hear this, well first outoutbreak last about a week or 2 depending on how your body is really taking it! My 1st one lasted almost 3 weeks n omg did itit hurt burned n itched! I used coconut oi for mine and also a use a blows dryer on the blisters so they can dry up! I hope it goes away soon
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      Yes I hope so too thank you. The pain I cant bear it anymore. Anything I do seems like nothing wants to work I cry when I pee I cry when I go to sleep and I cry when I wake up because of this pain
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      I know this is a sensitive moment for you now but added stress can make the outbreak worser. I know it's easier said than done but try not to worry too much.
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      I try not to stress especially with my baby on the way but this is more stress added on
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      I hope this helps but Im a mother of seven kids. I found out I had herpes with my 3rd child. They are all doing fine and have had no issues. You have the option of vaginal birth or a c-section. Whichever one you feel safe with. Talk to your doctor and take whatever medicine or instuctions he has given you. Your best answers come from your doctor.
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    I'm scared i might have GH and i have gonorrhea and Chlamydia I have sex with a men the have herpes but he put a condom on bit took it off and try to have sex with me raw this happened 23days ago and the only thing I had was a jock itch but it didn't itch it burned and three days ago it felt like I had a UTI it hurts a little when I pee it don't burn or anything and I don't have blisters and his wife say I had a 50/50 chance of not having it
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    I know this post was a while ago. I was diagnosed with GH about 3 months ago right before i met my current boyfriend. I didnt ever have an outbreak and my bf used condoms (i havent told him yet because when we met i was still in denial and he told me he was allergic to the medication for chlamydia and it was a difficult conversation because i didnt know how to tell him I had GH so i didnt any advice on how to would be awesome.)

    Anyway hes in the navy and is being processed to get deployed but last weekend i went camping and thought i got a bug bite (i have a bunch) like right under where the top of my underwear sits. I tweezed the hair around it to make the anti itch cream easier to absorb and now its very obviously a breakout. Anyway im going to visit my bf tomorrow for the first and last time in probably a year at least and i want to tell him but I don't know how and i cant just not have sex with him without telling him. I dont know what to do or how to fix this. Someone please help...I'm trying insanely hard not to stress out about this.

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      Hey my dear. I totally understand your situation right now. Cause I'm in the same problem now. I totally don't know should I tell him or i should hide it. Hiding it make me feel so selfish towards him. But what if I told him and our relationship just ended like this. And my guy had g6pd. Which make me don't know how to tell him too..

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    Hi just read this I'm really confused as I had signs of herpes with blister spots down below. I've not had sex for over 6 months I'm 32 weeks pregnant not been diagnosed yet waiting for my results from gum clinic on medication for it. Never had anything like this before any advice or help

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    please text me or call me 413-841-3039 I'd like to talk to you about this I'm dealing with similar situations

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    How does a dirst ourtbreak feel im not sure if i have it i feel no pain or anything just a bump i can feel without touching it its been there for 5 days and it dosent hurt i try to look and its very smal redish look and look like its spreading but im not forsure please help me whats a firsy outbreak feel lile look lile im gettimg checked out its just freaking me out u guys made me feel better if i do have something i just need anwsers?

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