How long to heal?
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hello -I had an Oxford partial knee replacement last Wed (10 days ago). The Dr said my knee was really bad and I should really see an improvement when I'm done healing. I hope so. Anyway, I was invited to a dinner and I thought I could go, but realized as the day went on that I couldn't because of the pain. People are now mad at me, but I feel like I am being rushed to get better. When will I really start to feel better. I start PT this week
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debz13 sandybug
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I had a tkr 12 wks ago this coming Monday and I am just now feeling I have turned the corner of recovery. Some have a quick and easy time and some have a long and difficult time.
Don't compare yourself to another person's recovery. Be patient and as positive as possible.
As to those who may be angry at/with you for not being able to attend the dinner, pay them no mind! You need to place your recovery first. Those who truly love and care for you will understand and want what is best for YOU!
Good luck and let us know how you are doing.
Oldfatguy1 sandybug
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cheryl90571 sandybug
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Try to give yourself permission to take care of YOUR needs. There will be really good days when you feel ready to tackle just about anything, and there will be days that it is best to lay on the couch drinking tea and relaxing after taking pain medication!
Your physical therapist will help you learn exercises that will build strength, develop balance, and show you how to bend and straighten your knee.
I had my left knee TKR in June and my RIGHT kneeTKR in October. Both were different experiences. I am about six weeks ahead of schedule from my first surgery. My first surgery brought a lot of swelling which hampered my overall progress. My right knee had minimal swelling, so I have been able to do MUCH MORE sooner. I was surprised because my right knee was the one that hurt more of the two prior to surgery.
Ten days SEEMS like an eternity when you have had surgery! Each day brings challenges that are not fun. I think you will begin to feel better pretty soon. Week three was easier for me because my 29 staples were out, and I could begin outpatient physical therapy. It was good to be able to be finished with Home Care! I began to feel normal again.
Keep positive.
Surround yourself with SUPPORTIVE people who care for YOU.
Eat well, drink plenty of water.
Ice, elevate, do your exercises.
Come to this site often!
Let us know how you are doing!
It WILL get better. Be patient.
anne07663 sandybug
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terri59470 sandybug
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Regardless of whether it was a Total or Partial, your body has been through major trauma. A big incision; nerves, muscles and ligaments dissected and some lost forever. Bits of your bones SAWN OFF! Holes drilled in said bones, strange objects HAMMERED into your bones, cement smeared into the joint, and finally many, many stitches or staples. Read all that to the people who have the nerve to be mad at you 10 days after surgery and ask how they think THEY would be coping right now! (And you could always show them the surgery on YouTube - it's an eye-opener!)
It's hard to say "when" you will really start to feel better as every knee is a completely different story, but you should probably be seeing incremental improvements on a day-to-day basis.
I'm 16 days out from my 2nd TKR, and coming up to 9 months on my first. I thought I'd had a really good day yesterday as I managed to get a few jobs done in the house, but boy! Did I pay for it during the night! If anything, Im guilty of trying to rush myself to get better, but I CERTAINLY won't be letting anyone else rush me! And neither should you. It's YOUR knee and YOUR recovery, you set the pace!
Good luck starting PT - hopefully you can start to build your strength and stamina, and give your recovery a boost.
Don't let negative people get you down. Their ignorance is their burden to bear, not yours.
Stay strong
Terri xx
mandy35295 sandybug
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susan89127 sandybug
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sandybug susan89127
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RethaT sandybug
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I really thought this would be a quick recovery because it was a partial, but I have found, by reading these posts, that the recovery is pretty much the same.
Hang in there and don't rush your recovery.
tracy2364 sandybug
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I'm nearly six weeks post op for PKR. Even though I have been doing quite alot and maybe too much it is a slow process. If I sit for too long with my knee down it gets very stiff, swollen and sore. My sick note runs out this week but I am going to ask for another six weeks off as I don't want to rush going back to work sitting at a desk for 8 hours a day and then have to take days off dure to pain etc and not sleeping well also.
I was given the impression that the healing process is quicker with PKR but as others have already mentioned we have still have had major surgery. I'm now waiting to hear when I will have my left knee done!!
Best of luck, exercise, rest, Ice and let your body when it is time to do stuff, not others who haven't experienced it.
sandybug
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sarah87162 sandybug
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Sorry if this sounds a long time to you now but it is better to be honest with you.
Take care and keep in touch
Sarah xxx
peg57 sandybug
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sandybug peg57
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