Hsv 1 and suppressive

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so since being diagnosed in august worst day of my life my partner has been calling me names and shameing me . calls me herpe pig a worm im discusting all the names in the book im not emotionally at this point strong enough this has degraded me in many ways than one i was perfect i was fine my days get no better constantly worrying when ima have a outbreak . constant tingles I need some more insight . so im on suppresive therapy now for a month now i been scared to give my partner oral i still dont have breakouts on my mouth i wanna give oral can i or my oartner will catch it i think hes sexually frustrated with my status . only thing i loved doing to my partner i been giving him oral with a condom its so sad like wtf is this anymore i have nothing to offer i cant even be touched i feel lost ...

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  • Posted

    My question to you is this, why the hell are you still with him? Leave him, now. No one should treat you that way. No one. You deserve better...

    • Posted

      im in denial and since i stepped out on him i have a son woth him i still wanna be with him despite my mistake i made when we were no longer together for a month cone to find out person i was woth didnt give me a chance guess im just looking for a second chance and support cuz i have nobody to talk to . hes a very mean man i dont wanna feel like i deserve it im just trying hard to be around im not tryna let go im so devasted . my situation is more complicated than it sounds i have a son with this man he wont even let me see my son cuz he says im contagious says ill give my 2 yr old herpes so im being pushed away idk what to do im so hopeless im devasted .

  • Posted

    im so very sorry you are being treated this way, you do not deserve it. Please know that there is life after being diagnosed. YOU are with more than how you are being treated. YOU can do better!!! STAND UP FOR YOURSELF. You can do this!!!

  • Posted

    girl what're you doing? LEAVE HIM! do NOT stay with someone abusing you like that, its not good for you or the child. you did not make a "mistake" if yall were not together when you went to someone else. dont put yourself in a toxic situation because of loneliness, get yourself out there and find better. also,,, he cant keep your kid away from you, take legal action. if you have oral herpes, meeasures can be taken to prevent transmission like not kissing your kid on the lips and etc. if its genital, you wouldnt give it to the kid at all.

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