Hsv2 for 2 years, tired of dealing with it alone

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Ive had hsv2 for 2 years and ive been alone since. I just started to have an outbreak and i get really depressed when it happens and im just so tired of dealing with this alone. I decided to try this so if anyone else feels alone and is having a hard time living with it too it would be nice to talk to someone who understands this road

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  • Posted

    i feel you i went to get tested yesterday i saw 4 little blisters and i am waiting for my results but i been feeling sad , scared and depressed i dont know what i am going to do if i do have herpes i feel like dying better

    • Posted

      well i can tell you dying doesnt make anything better and wont fix it. I wish you luck you dont get it but if you are positive , i wish i could tell you how to be prepared for what youre about to face. Its not easy. Are you pretty sure you have it?

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      Hope for the best but expect the worst. They must have done a blood test because a week sounds like a long time and i know its the longest week you'll ever have. They told me right then and there at the doctor but they did a swab and urine. Do you feel sick?

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      was just diagnosed with it and was so very depressed after i got over the out break i was fine im currently on meds everyday so i dont have another outbreak. i cried so hard so so hard for many days went through the worse depression of my life and went 2 and a half weeks without eating because of my depression and my boyfriend assured me that everything was okay and that we're going to get through it and to not worry. i told myself i would not get to that point again and have been good i stayed in the word and prayed and read my bible during that time and was able to feel better. if you need someone go talk to feel free to message me ❤

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      yeah they did blood test and swag test its been a hard day this week is gonna be hell for me . No i dont feel sick

    • Posted

      Try to let the negative thoughts fill your head up, you havent gotten the results yet so. Worry when its time to worry when you find out if you have it or not. Do you have anyone in your life

    • Posted

      thats what i am trying to do staying positive

      no i am single and i dont want tell my family

    • Posted

      i havent told any of my family, i highly recommend getting a journal nothing expensive just like a spiral notebook and writing all of your feelings and how youre feelinn for the day i promise it will help that way no one is in your business and its only between you! and if you live by yourself put it in your nightstand drawer and if you live with someone hid it under the mattress

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    im waiting for results but all signs says it is this. ive been so emotional but ive also been researching this also. herpes is actually very common and since they dont normally test for herpes on std testing many people dont know they have it. theres a bad stigma associated with it and it can be compared to having a skin condition.

    do you take med's everyday or only when you have a outbreak?

  • Posted

    hi there, im so sorry this happened to you but know you're not alone. im currently waiting for my results but i think i know already. i feel like my life is over... especially my dating life and im only 22 years old. i dont want to tell my friends.. i just feel so alone. feel free to private message me if you ever need anyone to talk to, im here. praying for you❤

  • Posted

    why dont you tell someone your close to! youll soon see that most people dont care or have it themselves!

    instagram has a community also 

  • Posted

    have you ever checked reddit? there is a subreddit called r/herpes and it is a great place to talk to people, chat, or ask questions etc. im sorry youre feeling alone, I know the feeling

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