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we have been very happily married for 30 years with a lovely family and nice life and lots of plans for the future. then my husband announced out the blue that he loved me but wasnt in love with me anymore and didnt feel a “deep love feeling for me anymore”, and he has never doubted his live for me in 30 years but in the ladt 6 minths he has thought of nithing else. he kept saying that something has happened inside him and he doesnt know what and that its nothing i have done. i am absolutely devestated, and after he assured me there was no one else invloved we agreed that he could be depressed as was showing other signs of this too such as low mood, weight loss, not feeling the same about his children/grandchildren etc who have always been such a priority to him, a real family man. he had been very stressed with work and other normal life stresses eg finances etc, he is self employed. He went to the doctors and was put on anti depressants, these didnt help & after 6 weeks of me finding it very hard to cope with the fact he didnt love me anymore we were driving eachother further apart. he went back to the doctors and the anti depressants were upped but he was completely pushing me away by then and saying very forcefully that he couldn’t stay here any longer seeing me devastated and after a week he moved out. i tried to support him trying to believe it was the depression but he was so sure his feelings were real, although hoped I was right but now he wont even speak to me about it and just says to me and our famiky and close friends he doeasnt know what happened but something broke inside his head or his heart and he doesnt want to be with me anymore, could this be depression or has he just fell out if love with me. has anyone experienced a similar situation.
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