i am 36, when have you experienced first premenopause symptoms?

hello,

i am 36, with 2 little girls (5+2), and a few months ago i started to have irregular periods with spotting/bleeding in between, funny skin & hair, joint & muscle pain...i've had pelvic pain on mostly the left side where my ovary is, but nothing could be found in various ultrasounds, examinations...blood test fine, thyroid fine, i even had a colonoscopy...i can't sleep anymore because i am so anxious that i have cancer or sth...but doctors keep telling me i'm fine.

my gynacologist prescribed a bc pill that i believe was quite high in estrogen that was having terrible side effects on me, with panic attacks, terrible. i stopped taking it after 2 cycles, but i am still feeling shaky, dizzy and tired...

a few days ago they found a small functional cyst which unfortunately ruptured and bled into my abdomen. it was removed via keyhole 2 ago and i am already feeling a lot better - the surgeon said all looking perfect in my tummy. the cyst was on the right ovary, but i have had pain on my left side for more than 3 months now!so i am still not closer as to what have might caused that...i am feeling so exhausted from all these worries, and i have no idea where to turn to next.

they checked my hormones when i was taking the pill which obviously only showed the hormones from the pill.

i am also suffering from a bit of a cough since a few weeks which i think is due to reflux, with some nasty mucus in the back of my throat, so now i am thinking i have lung cancer...

how much of a mess am i? i've had a lot of stress last year, working 2 much, lost 2 loved ones, and people keep telling me i need to relax. but how i am supposed to do that if i am bleeding on and off, with pain etc...which is worrying me sick?!

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