I am 47 and feel so bad tired , dry mouth , nausea anxiety scared
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I lost my mum a 1,5 ago , thinking I'm still greaving but all the simtoms could also be menopause is well , sometimes is so hard I stayed in bed for days but then I still have to drag myself to work what is wrong with me help
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tmpearce wilson170568
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Hi Wilson,
I am so very sorry for your loss. This is a very difficult time for you and I understand what you are going through.
I lost my son, my only child, in a car accident almost 9 years ago. I was 46 at that time. For the first few years I pretty much stayed in the house with no energy and no desire to do anything. The depression lifted as I worked through the grief with the help of an amazing support group but the other symptoms continued over the years....fatigue, head pressure headaches, nausea, anxiety and more. I know that a lot of it was grief but looking back at it I'm sure that this horrible thing happened right at the time of my life that my body started with peri menopause. I was attributing a lot of how I was feeling to a prolonged grief but now see that, in all the unfairness in this world I was having to deal with these two major life changes at the same time.
You may be in peri menopause as well and compounded with your grief over the loss of your mother it's difficult to know what is causing your symptoms.
In my opinion, the best thing you can do is to be gentle on yourself, eat a healthy diet and go for walks when you can. It would be good to talk to your doctor so he/she can maybe so some blood tests to be sure you don't have another reason for why you are feeling like this...like maybe low iron or B12 levels.
I'm sorry you are feeling like this and send hugs to you?
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