I am depressed m unable to conceive

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Hi,

I am 29 years old and periods are irregular.

I did FSH and LH test and it came out as I m suffering from PCOS as my Fsh was 7 and LH was 18 on second day of periods.

My doctor gave me Diane 35 tablets for 3 months and after that when I checked my Fsh and LH level were 7.8 and 8.36.

So my doctor suggested to do follicular test but my follicles were not growing.

We are trying for baby but no succeeding.

Now my doctor has asked me take some injection. So is it safe? Please help

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  • Posted

    If you are trying for a baby and your follicles are not producing eggs then this is the usual way to stimulate them. Or sometimes ladies take medication by mouth if suitable. Are you seeing a fertility specialist? 

    This treatment is as safe as any other treatment you might receive but if you experience any unpleasant side effects you must of course report this so you can be re assessed. Once you start this sort of treatment you should be monitored constantly,preferably in a specialist clinic.  Are you in UK?

    Do you know of any mothers who have just had a baby. Could you go to see them and give the baby some cuddles? This is the old fashioned way to conceive but it often works as it is a natural stimulation.

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      My doctor has put me on Fertisure F tablets 2 times a day and folic acid tablets one time a day.

      She had also give me susten 200 for 10 days 2 tablets a day. Just wanted to know how does this work. No m.not in UK I m currently in India

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    Hi Siashah

    I understand how disturbing this can be for you, but I want you to take a crucial step. That step is you first realizing that age is well on your side. At 29, you are at an advantage. That's the first step.

    Now, I don't know your faith, but you've got to realize that your word could very well become your reality. That means that you have to be optimistic. Those medical test results don't always define your situation. No matter how low your numbers are, no matter how dismally discouraging the results are, there's always light on the other end of the tunnel. It's not just about believing; it actually happens. I know of a case that it seemed hopeless, but it eventually happened out of the blues for that couple with zero medical intervention. I'm not trying to say that medical professionals can't help. Of course they can, but you've got to believe in yourself that nothing is wrong with you.

    Get your mind off of the "issue". Notice I enclosed the word in quotations, which means that what you think is an issue might in fact exist only on your mind and your husband's mind, but doesn't exist in reality. Carry on your couple relationship casually so to speak. By the time you realize it, you'll start experiencing discomforts that only are triggered by real pregnancy. Your pregnancy will sneak up on you, and by the time you realize it, you've gone 3 to 4 months into your pregnancy.

    When you are too conscious of what you term a problem, you will get in a desperate effort to conceive. Ultimately, it will be hard for it to happen. Therefore, you have to relax your mind and have normal, tension-free sex with your husband. Get your mind off of the fact that it hasn't happened yet. Remember that no woman is born barren. You just have to work on your mind and make a good place for the conception to happen. I will be looking forward to hearing your success story. 

    • Posted

      Thank-you so much for your kind words. Yes I will start relaxing and be optimistic.
    • Posted

      You're welcome, Siashah. But these are not just kind words; they are words meant to wake up the power of faith in you.

      I don't know if you're a Christian; if you are, I'm sure you'd relate to me on that. Pray over it, and leave the rest to God. As I said, I'll be waiting to read your success story. Your heart's desire will come to pass; it's only with time. Just don't give up.

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