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I am helplessn

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cheese87398
cheese87398

i live with my lovey girlfriend who I love very much and wan't to be together with her all the time. when i am with her I am happy for the most part. But i can't shake the thought of killing myself and i can't stop drinking. if i don't drink i can't fall asleep. i feel like a lost cause.

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  • sam18386
    sam18386 cheese87398

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    hi cheese, i think killing yourself due to lack of drink isn't great really. i think getting help for drinking.might help more. have you spoken to your doctor? have you explained how you feel? have you tried to stop drinking? i am not your doctor, i am not telling you what to do but i am simply asking.

  • jan34534
    jan34534 cheese87398

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    you were not a lost cause. Nobody is. Many people feel that way when they are going through trials, hurt, depression, anxiety etc. And you are drinking because there is emotional pain on some level. You are trying to numb that pain.

    Your girlfriend is comfort and that is great but in order to feel better, you need support for this.

    Ending your life makes your pain or whatever you are covering up the winner. You are worth more than that.

    Even if you don’t feel that right now. You can feel so much better. Reach out for professional help and you can start with a counselor. It’s such a relief to vent to somebody who can really help you. It’s time for you! Don’t waste another day feeling miserable.

    One day you’ll look back and be so glad that you got that support.

    take one day at a time. It’s time to reach out! ❤

  • joshuapryce1987
    joshuapryce1987 cheese87398

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    You have a girlfriend, that is a great start to a solution to your issues. Confide in her.

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