I am very frustrated for last few years , what to do ?
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i am 27 old boy , from childhood itself i am good in studies but except that i have done nothing in my life, my general awareness is worst , i feel ashmed to face people since i cannot participate in discussion; i tried a lot to read newspaper but i didnt get any intrest ; please suggest me what to do. also i am very shy type of person ;how to overcome my frustration; except the bookish knowledge i feel i dont know anything ; i am very differnt person as from common person , i am very innocent and simple person, i dont have any bad habbit and i dont have wrong intention about any of the person. i am very loving and soft hearted person. i never think any bad thing about any of the people.
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georgeGG raju21331
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Welcome to this forum. You have made a very good start. All of us on this forum have significant problems whether it is our own ailments or the elements of a loved one. You will see in the Chatroom Group that many of us like discussing philosophical points. Others follow a very wide variety of general points of interest.
I hope you will get used to discussing many different matters and soon make e-friends. Perhaps in time, you will find you are sufficiently confident to make face-to-face friends in your locality and have discussions with them.
Please remember, that we on this forum all have significant problems and may need to be forgiven for a word out of place or a misunderstanding of what someone has written. So, again, you are very welcome and I look forward to seeing you join in our discussions.
George
joy47826 raju21331
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A good book which I found wonderful later in my life is: Do What You Love and The Money Will Follow...a lot of good advice.....I think it's still available and probably online. Joy
mark357 raju21331
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Don't feel bad about this, you will find that you possess a lot of knowledge already, but if reading a newspaper is not your thing then do what I do, as my reading is poor when it comes to newspapers. By the time I have read one story, then I get bored. Instead I read the news on the red button. They give you the basic information on each story. Not only that, you can get the local news from your area. I will always find time as well to catch the news on tv at least once a day, preferably in the morning, so that you can pick up to what others are saying around you.
Welcome to the team.
Light raju21331
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I can tell from your post that you are all you say you are. There is a sweetness and innocence there and that is definitely something to be valued.
Don't worry about not reading the newspaper. I am the opposite of you. I can't stop reading the newspaper.... actually, anything in print that comes my way. And there's really no value to it that has any true meaning.
It is sometimes useful to have a common topic of knowledge when you meet others, but the news is good for little else than making you want to tear your hair out in despair.
Consider yourself lucky you're not interested.
Find what you ARE interested in.
It doesn't have to be anything that anyone else tells you that you should care out, find out what pulls you from your soul.
It's true, sometimes, to find that special thing, it does take a bit of reading and nosing around... but no need to go deeply into anything until that spark happens.
But when that spark does happen – go for it totally. Don't hold back.
It may take a while, so don't be worried.