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I cannot maintain an erection with new woman in my life after wife left me for her boss

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Antonio123
Antonio123

This new woman is the sexiest woman I have ever known and I get hard just being in her presence. When we start having sex (oral) I am hard and when I enter her I'm hard. The problem is that I get anxious to satisfy her fully and that's when doubts creep in and the erection gradually disappears, despite my best efforts. I have tried several different medications but they don't seem to work. I am always in the mood for sex with her so it's not a libido issue, just something in my head.

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  • Jacobc
    Jacobc Antonio123

    Posted

    I had a similar issue with my fiance when we first met you need to ask her if shes ok with you getting off first if your not able to fully get her off right away that happens with time it just you being nervous it happens try a c**k ring as well be sure to get leather because metal can cause complications

  • Tewks
    Tewks Antonio123

    Posted

    Sometimes when you first start having sex with a new partner, there is something called performance anxiety. You seem to have it. You are afraid you won't be able to please her and it causes you to loose the erection. Usually over time as you both get use to each other, the anxiety will fade away.

  • DrHornyEve
    DrHornyEve Antonio123

    Posted

    Attempt use of a ck ring. As the penis fills, the ck ring, when properly applies, will keep the erect penis engorged until ejaculation. Then remove the c**k ring when softer. Definitely worth the shot. But a pack with a few different sizes, just in case.

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