I feel like I have nothing to live for

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am a 31 year old have a 8 year old daughter live with parents but at this point I wish was dead cause dnt think can hendle life anymore

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    please call a suicide hotline immediately. or go to the hospital and check yourself in. no matter what seems bad at this moment, things change. Please, please please

  • Posted

    not sure exactly what is going on in your life right now that got you living with parents along with raising your daughter. Is the father around? Anyway, you need to be around for her. Think of the milestones that she will be going through. You need to be there for her. Life can be hard but you will have ups and downs. push through and don't let anybody put you down.

  • Posted

    I see from your post you are a young woman with a child to care for. As your post did not mention what you are being treated for

    it is difficult to offer any practical advise on your condition.

    I am concerned you feel you have nothing to live for! This forum can give you practical advice on your medial condition as well as support you during this difficult time. PAIN in its self is very lowering, have you spoken to your GP or hospital specialist about how you are feeling? I'm sure if you talk to your GP in the first instance they should be able to advise you of mental health services available.

    Please be assured that your fellow patients on this forum will be here for you.

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    there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. Even if you cant see it I promise its there and you will eventually find your way to find it. When you do it will be so special for you. Don't give up as you have been blessed with a child.

    I have been in a dark tunnel for a long time. Never believed id find the light but eventually found a way out. The best things are worth fighting for and never give up.

    Good luck and best wishes, we are all here for you.

  • Posted

    I agree with everything that others have said but want to emphasise that you must talk to your GP. You live with your parents and theres nothing like the support you can get from your mum. Everybody needs their mum sometimes, no matter how old you are and, as a mum yourself, you know that. Think about your child who loves you and needs you. Your mum will be there for you and you must be there for your daughter. we all go through bad times in our lives but, with determination, you will get through this. Depression usually improves well with modern medication but additional counseling can also be organised by your GP. Best wishes. xx

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    Hi twanano03314,

    We note from a recent post which you have made to our forum that you may be experiencing thoughts around self-harm. If we have misinterpreted your comments then we apologise for contacting you directly. But if you are having such thoughts then please note that you are not alone in this, and there are people out there that can help.

    If you are having these suicidal thoughts then we strongly recommend you speak to someone who may be able to help. The Samaritans offer a safe space where you can talk openly about what you are going through. They can help you explore your options, understand your problems better, or just be there to listen.

    Their contact details are on our patient information leaflet here: https://patient.info/health/dealing-with-suicidal-thoughts, which also offers lots of other advice on how you can access the help you may need.

    If you are having such thoughts then please do reach out to the team at the Samaritans (or the other people detailed in our leaflet) who will understand what you're going through and will be able to help.

    If you are based outside of the UK.

    The Samaritans is a UK based charity, but they also have suggestions for how you can access help in other countries.

    Please have a look at this page https://www.befrienders.org/directory

    Patient

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