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Hi, I am an 18 year old male.
I used to have a good number of friends before but I never had a best friend. I never felt comfortable around most of them because I never could 'merge' with them. The setback of not having good friends has distanced me from people now. I feel like I am not capable of being a friend.
Also I never had a great relationship with my parents, partly because of them and partly because of me. They over-cared for me and I seem to be suffering because of that now that I want to establish a future for myself. Also I never had a good parent-child interaction with them which makes me feel they are parents just for namesake. I have no feeling of comfort around them. It is partially my fault as well and also they have never hesitated in financially spending for my requirements. However, I never felt close to them.
Also lately, my mind seems to be depressed about my marriage. I come from a very conservative family and marrying is pretty compulsory for me. There is no hindrance for a love marriage but I am naturally hesitant to speak to girls and also I don't consider myself average looking. Add to this a couple of penile problems that I am currently working on and my mind sinks into depression.
I have been a pretty good student my whole life but I have never been interested in a single thing. When it was time for me to decide my career, I was pretty clueless. As a result, I am heading towards a career that my parents chose for me. I have no hesitations in following that but I just feel it would have been better if somehow I get interested in something.
My life seems goalless and support less. By the way I analyzed all the problems in my life, I figured out that its sources were either my disinterest in my life or my extreme selectivity in feeling comfortable around people. Please help me in finding a solution to the above two problems....
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